'Bachelorette' Unconcerned By Infidelity Claims

By PopEater Staff Posted Aug 5th 2009 02:45PM

'Bachelorette' Jillian Harris and her fiance Ed Swiderski are taking a break from celebrating their recent engagement to battle some unpleasant news. Two women have alleged sexual encounters with Swiderski - after his onscreen proposal to Harris.

Swiderski's ex-girlfriend Lindsey Johnson and another woman, Bethany Steffen, both told Us Weekly that Swiderski was not faithful to Harris during the filming of 'The Bachelorette' or after she selected him as the winner. Johnson claims that Swiderski sent text messages indicating that Harris wasn't his "type" and that he prefers "all blondes." Johnson says she slept with Swiderski, not realizing he'd popped the question only a day before.

Johnson told Us Weely, "I feel gross, used and completely violated. It shocks me that he was able to do something like that to me."

Steffen, who dated Swiderski before he began filming 'The Bachelorette' in March, says the reality star tried to entice her into bed a week after he proposed to Harris. She says of her decision to go public with the allegation: "Ed's not worth my time, but if I can help someone avoid heartbreak, I'm gonna do that."

Harris has responded to reports that she's devestated by the news, telling PEOPLE, "I am not destroyed! There's a little bit of anxiety that comes with this news, but I am absolutely not destroyed."

"What did he do wrong?" Harris asks. "My biggest concern is with everything that happened after the day we got engaged, and after we got engaged he has been so open with me. He's told me all of this, every little text message and every little phone call. I use his computer. I know that any communication he had with the girls post-show was platonic. I'm not worried about it."

Harris says she understands that Swiderski would have contact with his exes, and that "feelings and emotions are involved. I know what it feels like to fall in love with somebody and to be in love with somebody [while] they are in love with somebody else. It's very heartbreaking. I feel so awful, but since we've been home and since we've been engaged we've been exclusive and he's done nothing wrong."

Harris adds, "Ed and I are trying to find humor in all of this - and there isn't much - but it's bringing us closer."

But Steffen has words of warning for the bride-to-be: "Lindsey and I are both smart girls, and Ed just has this way of making people believe what he wants. Jillian needs to be careful."

http://xml.channel.aol.com/xmlpublisher/fetch.v2.xml?option=expand_relative_urls&dataUrlNodes=uiConfig,feedConfig,entry&id=615447&pid=615446&uts=1249500334

http://www.popeater.com/mm_track/popeater/tv/?s_channel=us.tvpop&s_account=aolnews,aolsvc&omni=1&ke=1

http://cdn.channel.aol.com/cs_feed_v1_6/csfeedwrapper.swf

Reality TV Couples

With all eyes on Kate & Jon Gosselin, we're wondering if they'll make it past the bumps or fall victim to other failed reality show couples. PopEater takes a look at current reality couples and how long we think they'll stay together. >>

Brad Barket, WireImage

Reality TV Couples

Kate Gosselin & Jon Gosselin ('Jon & Kate Plus 8')
With eight kids running around, Kate rules the roost and is constantly bossing her husband around. Now with the tabloid frenzy saying both are having affairs, it is difficult to say how much longer these two will "play nice" in front of the cameras. It's not looking good, though.

Brad Barket, WireImage

Ozzy & Sharon Osbourne ('The Osbournes')
The Osbournes may drop more F-bombs than a sailor, but Sharon and Ozzy have stayed loyal for 26 years and counting. If they didn't split in the '80s, we say they're together forever.

Neal Preston, MTV

Heidi Montag and Spencer Pratt ('The Hills')
One fake wedding, one real wedding and several seasons of 'The Hills' later, Spencer & Heidi seem to be everywhere. They love the attention, so we're sure they'll stay together long enough to have their own MTV reality show.

Bauer-Griffin

Alex McCord & Simon van Kempen ('Real Housewives of New York')
These two prove that not taking yourself too seriously can pay off. Despite their quirky fashion sense, Alex and Simon seem madly in love with each other, so our money's on a lifetime of bliss.

Amy Sussman, Getty Images

Christopher Knight & Adrianne Curry ('My Fair Brady')
Even though the pair are constantly fighting on camera, the 'Brady Bunch' actor cannot seem to get enough of his 'America's Next Top Model' wife. Do you blame him? Unless Adrianne decides to give him the boot, they seem pretty stable to us.

Frazer Harrison, Getty Images

Kendra Wilkinson & Hank Baskett ('Kendra')
Kendra and Hank will make their reality debut until June 7. These two will probably stay together ... as long as Hank can put up with Kendra's laughter and "blonde" moments.

Alberto E. Rodriguez, Getty Images

"Rev. Run" Simmons & Justine Simmons ('Run's House')
The Simmons have a lot of quirks and show that even during the tough times, they're there for each other. We say absolutely zero chance of a split here.

Jamie Sabau, Getty Images

Gretchen Rossi and Slade Smiley ('Real Housewives of the O.C.')
Oh the tangled web they've weaved. Gretchen was engaged to Jeff Beitzel during her time on the show before he passed away, but was recently caught smooching Slade Smiley, who used to be engaged to fellow 'Housewives' star Jo De La Rosa. Got it? Yeah, this one feels like a bust within a year.

FilmMagic

Tiffany "New York" Pollard & Tailor Made ('I Love New York')
Tailor Made loves groveling as much as New York likes bossing him around. We see them staying together ... until a new 'I Love New York' show is pitched.

Gustavo Caballero, Getty Images

Shanna Moakler & Travis Barker ('Meet The Barkers')
We never know if The Barkers are together or separated, but we love them all the same. Chances are, if they're not already back together, they will be shortly.

Peter Kramer, Getty Images

Tags: jillian harris, JillianHarris, the bachelorette, TheBachelorette

Comments

(218)

Wednesday 05 August

By ahmed

Vote down Vote up Report this

I would think Jillian would be more concerned about his genetic makeup since his "parents" on the show certainly are not his biological parents.

By Anne

Highest Rank Vote down Vote up Report this

AHMED what??? I did not see his parents but if you are saying that he was adopted and it's the cause of your distrust in him I can't believe it. His "genetic makeup" she should be concerned about? That is sick.
Sneaky and sly. You would judge someone by what you could find out or not find out about their biological parents. My children are adopted and are my pride and my joy. Wonderful grown adults now. No one ever asked to research their biological lineage. They themselves never cared about that. We are their parents. I hope I am wrong about what you meant. If I am then my apologies but I'm thinking I'm not wrong.

Thursday 06 August

By liveyourown

so what if he is adopted? that doesn't define a person, his character is more defined by his actions not his genetic make up.

By RavebGirl

Hello, are you saying that his parents were make up parents?

Friday 07 August

By jimmy

she should got back to the airline polet. he's a much better guy. but love is blind.

By Suzie

High Rank Vote down Vote up Report this

I think Julian has very bad taste in men and that she screwed up when she selected Ed. If she doesn't want her heart broken she shouldn't have picked ED. She should have gone with Kypton or Jake.

By Erin

i dont think that i think she made a good choice by choosing Ed. but my other choice would have been Jake.

By Jenn

Finally! Someone who thinks she was really mislead in picking Ed...*shudder*

By Mary

I totally agree with you!!!

By sheryl

I love Jillian she is a wonderful lady but i really feel Kypton was more for her.. i dont know why she picked ed although i have accepted it but now i dont konw.. i just want her to be happy....

By Brenda

Suzie- I agree with you completely!! And what was with Jillian keeping that idiot Wes around for so long?????

By Sharon

I wouldn't believe one thing a tabloid magazine like US weekly says. I figured sooner or later they'd have to have their rumors going. Tabloids magazines are so good for making up false stuff like this.

By Diane

Finally someone agrees with me.I absolutely loved kypton and Jake, but my true opinion is she loves to drink and Ed does too so they have that in common.when they showed him (Ed) in the hallway at the motel drunk he was a sloppy drunk,but kypton or Jake would have caught on to drinking real quick and they were not the type to drink all the time so I believe thats why she picked ED.And further more Kypton and Jake had so much class and knew how to dress,and Ed on the other hand no clue about who dressed him,but all I can say is it looked liked he shopped at baby Gap.I hope jake or Kypton are the next bachelors.

By llewis

She really made some bad decisions, letting some good guys go by the way. Some just like all the drama.

By Sue

Ummm hello...her name is JILLIAN..not Julian...btw..I think ED is great..kinda reminds me of a grown of Greg Brady. He's gorgeous, sweet, romantic, and if she ever gets rid of him, I know an older woman who would take him in a New York minute!

By pat lukes

I think Jillian doesn't have a clue when it comes to picking men. Look how long she kept Wes around. That's a huge red flag. I don't think she should find humor in this, I think she should find troubling signs. Two women would not make the same claims.

By jeannie

I THINK SHE AND JAKE SHOULD HAVE BEEN TOGETHER.HE CHANGED HIS FLIGHT SCHEDULE TO LET HER KNOW ABOUT WES!! I DO THINK HE WAS FALLING IN LOVE WITH HER. HE'S HANDOME,BEAUTIFUL BLUE EYES AND WHAT A SMILE!! (BY THE WAY, I HOPE WES NEVER MAKES IN THE MUSIC BUSINESS, I THINK HE BLEW IT. PEOPLE WILL NOT FORGET.) I HOPE ED DOES NOT HURT JILLIAN. IF I WERE JILLIAN I WOULD HAVE THOUGHT LONG AND HARD BEFORE BEING WITH ED. HE LEFT HER ONCE AND IT DOES NOT MATTER THAT IT WAS FOR WORK. I WOULD THINK HIS BOSS UNDERSTOOD WHY HE WAS NOT AT WORK. Mmmm...MAKES YOU WONDER IF ED DID SEE THESE OTHER WOMEN BEFORE GOING BACK TO THE SHOW. OLD GIRLFRIENDS?? I WISH THE BEST FOR JILLIAN!!

By helen

its not right if Ed did that but the other guys look her type much more ,
Don't marry if you feel this is not right
the others were better ,even much better looking together....don't make a mistake with Ed , he is wrong for you,I saw it in him ,,,,his eyes tell it all...

Saturday 08 August

By Debbie

I SSSOOOOOO totally agree with you! Something about him creeps me out..YUK!

By Donna

something was not right with this season, too many comings and goings, too many accusations of girlfriends and other behavior not appropriate for being on this show, and now this. Did he really leave for his job or did he leave to end a relationship, or what? Its a sad world where we really can't believe anyone anymore isn't it. I do not believe she picked the right man for her, and I don't necessarily think the right one was in the last 3 either

Page 1 of 11

'Bachelorette' Unconcerned By Infidelity Claims

Related Articles

PopStew

SnapPolls