Kanye West used Jay Leno's prime-time debut Monday to offer another apology for ruining Taylor Swift's night at the MTV VMAs and says he's going to take some time off for reflection. The startling moment of the interview happened when Leno abruptly asked if his late mother would lecture him for his actions. Cue awkward silence. Watch the video after the jump! Jay Leno Almost Makes Kanye West Cry
Kanye West used Jay Leno's prime-time debut Monday to offer another apology for ruining Taylor Swift's night at the MTV VMAs and says he's going to take some time off for reflection. The startling moment of the interview happened when Leno abruptly asked if his late mother would lecture him for his actions. Cue awkward silence. Watch the video after the jump! West said he knew he was wrong the moment he handed the microphone back to Swift, when he was bathed in boos. He had interrupted Swift on Sunday night as she accepted a best female video award for 'You Belong With Me,' arguing that Beyonce's 'Single Ladies (Put a Ring on It)' was more deserving.
"It was rude, period," West said. He posted a second apology to Swift on his blog on Monday, and told Leno he wanted to apologize to the country music star in person.
West took a long pause when Leno asked what his mother would have said about the incident. West was very close to his mother, Donda, who died in November 2007. He said yes when Leno asked whether his mother would have given him a lecture.
"Yeah, it's been extremely difficult." He admitted to "just dealing with the fact that I hurt someone or took anything away, you know, from a talented artist or from anyone, because I only wanted to help people."
Explaining why he was giving a shout-out to the other nominee, Beyoncé, West said, "My entire life, I've only wanted to give and do something that I felt was right. And I immediately knew in the situation that it was wrong, and it wasn't a spectacle or just – you know, it's actually someone's emotions, you know, that I stepped on."
Concurring with many of the sentiments expressed by critics since the incident, West said, "And it was very ... rude, period. And, you know, I'd like to be able to apologize to her in person."
"So many celebrities, they never take the time off," he said. "I've never taken the time off to really - you know, just music after music and tour after tour. I'm just ashamed that my hurt caused someone else's hurt. My dream of what awards shows are supposed to be, 'cause, and I don't try to justify it because I was just in the wrong. That's period. But I need to, after this, take some time off and just analyze how I'm going to make it through the rest of this life, how I'm going to improve.
So how did Leno do with such a high profile interview? "He was handed a gift in the form of a somewhat-repentant West," Sandy Deane, editor of AOL Television and Inside TV, told PopEater. "It was surprising that Leno actually touched a nerve with the performer when asking what his deceased mother would have thought of his rude behavior. Leno usually avoids the hard-hitting questions, so it was interesting to see him push to get a real emotional response from Kanye."
According to Inside TV, most critics felt the show was simply a rehash of Leno's previous gig, 'The Tonight Show,' where he served as host for years. But it managed to pull in an astounding 17.7 million viewers. More Insight from Inside TV on Leno's Debut and Monster Ratings >>>
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Musician Kanye West and Amber Rose attend the 2009 MTV Video Music Awards at Radio City Music Hall on September 13, 2009 in New York City. 2009 MTV Video Music Awards - Red Carpet Radio City Music Hall New York, NY United States September 13, 2009 Photo by Kevin Mazur/WireImage.com To license this image (16951445), contact WireImage.com
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Tuesday 15 September
By Robin
You are a complete jackass. If you going to post try and pretend to be grown up and save your CAPS, it shows your inablity to think or write like rational person. You write like a getto thug and I would bet that is what you are, just like Kanye West. Taylor Swift did not derserve that and keep in mind she is all of 19. For what happened to her she handled it very well, with dignity and class something you or Kanye know NOTHING about.
Tuesday 15 September
By Jane
Tony, you have every right to have your own personal opinion about whomever you wish, as does Kanye. However, too many people of my community are using situations such as this as a platform to appear as though they are 'fightin' the power' for our cause, when in actuality it only makes tensions worse, and at the very least, it gives the impression that the very people in the black community who speak the loudest for reform and equality are the same people who are creating situations that are as wrong headed and racially motivated as the ones we fight against! Do you understand what I am saying? I happen to understand that if I REALLY want to be respected then I must conduct myself as a person worthy of it and return I should treat the other person likewise, but what Kanye did was one of the most disrespectful things I have ever seen done to a person who never had an inclination to treat him (kanye) or anyone else that way. He will never get another dime of my money nor will his music be welcome in my household again. Unfortunately you do not appear to be very educated....let me clue you in on something. You are the exact kind of person who appeals to those such as kanye...someone who cannot look deeply into oneself, be honest with oneself or work hard to change within yourself the worst in you. People like you are easily led and will always be chosen to participate in poor behavior, live a life subscribing to self-serving ideals and helping the haters and racists perpetuate their contrived lie. I do not feel sorry for you or kanye. An apology for behaving this way is not enough. We have to start leading and living by example or everything that comes out of our mouths is for nothing!
Tuesday 15 September
By Jo
Everyone's losing focus...The issue was not about "who deserved the award," nor that "Taylor Swift is a sweet young girl," nor that "Beyonce has already won enough awards," nor (as MJ sang}"...if you're black or white!" Bottom line is that Kanye West made a bad decision (blame it on the a aaa aalcohol) when he stepped up on that stage w/o either an invitation or an introduction. He was not only rude, inconsiderate and disrespectful to Taylor, but he made a complete fool of himself by displaying inexcusably bad behavior.
Tuesday 15 September
By Scott
Kanye West cried..........nonsense...it was all for the cameras. He could not even say her name. If he would have really cared he would have said her name. All he said was "HER" and "SHE". Taylor Swift is her name and she did not deserve this ignorant thug to go up and steal her moment.
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Tuesday 15 September
By John
He didn't have to say her name because everybody knew who he was talking about. And In a way I feel kind of like he did about Taylor Swift getting that award when she's doing bubblegum pop country. It wasn't even a country song. More like alternative. But still he shouldn't have done it like that. He could've just blogged it. Like "Wtf Taylor Swift?" lmao. That would've been funny lol. But he also gets a little respect from me at the same time because he said what's on his mind, to the world, and didn't give a damn what people would've thought and that takes balls of steel...
Tuesday 15 September
By ges
Scott who said this human is a thug. Send him to Mule Creek prison for 2 days. If he services he is not a thug. I figure he'd be on his kness in a hour.
Tuesday 15 September
By HiResDes
every black isn't a thug, and this situation hardly called for that term. If you want to see a real thug go to South Central or the White House where all the "thug-lobbyists" hang.
Tuesday 15 September
By jack
Dr. Phil said he is a bully,he would not have gotten on stage with anyone who could kick his ass and those were Crododile tears on jay
Tuesday 15 September
By Brian
Why can't Kanye just be a person who makes mistakes. Why call him a thug? How is that helping the situation. Does it make you feel any better that you can call someone a name over the computer and feel justified? Please take a minute and look at your life. Have you made any mistakes? Any major mistakes? How would you feel if someone goes over your mistakes over and over again. Notice that I used the word mistake in the plural sense, which denotes that Kanye has messed up numerous times. Ignorance is the inability to express one's self in a civilized manner without berating a person. And you have shown yourself to be that way with your hate filled reasoning and belittling of a human being.
Tuesday 15 September
By Georgia
you got it .. take the bum out of the slum but can't take the slum out of the bum... has nothing to do with race.. all about drugs and drink !!
Tuesday 15 September
By Ms Choclit
Ignorance is your motivation..what is it with "YOU" people and "YOUR" race issues..how about all white people and all black people..get a life and get off of each others NUTS (i could use a better word..but why)!!..I COMPLETELY agree, Kanye was wrong and proved his own ignorance on Sunday..there is no REAL excuse for his actions..but guess what people..they're his actions..not just a "black" mans actions..as far as Kanye being so ghetto..do your research before you spew more ignorance..he was far from poor and was not from the ghetto..it would be a shame for his mother (RIP) to get a multiple degrees and become a doctor and raise her son in the poor "ghetto"..read a book SMART GUY.. or better yet..do some research..your opinions just may be respected more..and taken seriously..rather than as just unfounded CRAP..
Ignorance is a nasty disease..along with stupidity and hatred..for some there is no cure..for others there is hope..what side do you choose..lets leave RACE out of it people..Stupidity comes in all shapes sizes and races..and you along with many others are showing your own stupidity..
oh and FYI..yes I am a BLACK woman from NY..grew up in a UPPER middle class environment..and have my BA in Forensic Psychology..and I can back up EVERYTHING that I say..but I guess to you..I grew up in the "GHETTO"..LMAO..
Tuesday 15 September
By stuk
Scott, I agree with you. The only reason Kayne feels bad is because of all the BAD feedback he is getting. He is now scrambling to try and minimize the damage to his career. Kayne may be able to sing but, as far as being a person, he SUCKS!! He said he was only trying to help, help who? Was he trying to impress Beyoncé? Oh, it made an impression, alright. Don"t think it was the one he wanted to make. Kayne can take off as long as he wants. I won"t miss him!!
Tuesday 15 September
By Chan
No one said he cried, Kanye didn't show he cried. He looked damn well ashamed, understandably so. I've seen youtube comments ruder than what kanye did and somehow kanye gets crucified.
Tuesday 15 September
By Hugh
"My dream of what awards shows are supposed to be". Is all about me, me, me! This guy has a lot of self-hate. He is well aware that no matter how much money he makes, regardless of what or who he buys and sells, he will always be nothing more than a crude, classless street thug. He knows it and he hates it because it's true. Go back to the ghetto, Kanye. You don't belong among civilized people.
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Tuesday 15 September
By Csulli
It's not about self-hate, he hates white people. He's always trashing white entertainers. I don't think he is talented and he is a boor and the best thing he could do is to go away. Taylor Swift may not be my ideal entertainer but that was her moment and he ruined it, no matter what Beyonce tried to do to smooth it over later.
Tuesday 15 September
By UncleD
Didn't watch the Leno show, but have a question. Did West have his jug of whiskey with him or was he sober when he "almost cried"??
Tuesday 15 September
By D
I agree that Kanye's actions were wrong, but they do not stem from him being from the ghetto. He is not a thug. His parents are college professors. Not all black people that are entertainers have a "rags to riches" story about how they rose above the cofines of the ghetto.
Your statement is ignorant because you do not know the facts about his backgroound and yet you assume that you know where his actions stem from.
One could easily assume and make an ignorant statement about you based on your comment. If you are able to look at your statement objectively you could see how someone could assume that you are a racist, redneck who thinks that all black people are from the ghetto. I don't assume that, but in the same way that you assume Kanye is from the ghetto because of his classless action, one could assume that you are racist because of your assumption that Kanye is from the ghetto.
Think about it...
Tuesday 15 September
By Evelyn
There are a lot of good people in the ghetto... they are POOR, not lacking in good manners or "class" as you call it. And, there are jackasses like Kanye in all socio-economic categories - as he proved Sunday night.
Tuesday 15 September
By Tooni
You nailed it Hugh. Once a thug, always a thug. You can't make a silk purse out of a sow's ear.
There once was a time when all musical artists respected one another regardless of the genre. Now we have a genre of thugs blessed by being pulled out of the ghetto, and they bring their thug attitudes and gang behavior along with them. Suddenly there is violent rivalry, shootings, and gang mentality brought into the industry. Ignorant thugs who will never rise above their raising. They just get more arrogant.
Tuesday 15 September
By poeticmuse79
Hugh, I think you're mistaking grief for self-hate. As someone who recently lost a parent, I can empathize with Kanye's pain. Donda was his rock, and he hasn't taken the time to properly grieve. He's been drowning himself in liquor and music. Jay (having met Donda) hit the nail on the head, and though I'm not a fan of Jay's, he earned a lot of respect from me for being so bold.
How can someone who's not from the ghetto go back to it? Kanye was definitely wrong. Like Katie Perry said, he stepped on a kitten. But maybe him taking time off will allow him to get back to the young man that Donda West raised, praised, and loved.