Twins Mady and Cara Gosselin turn 9 this Thursday, and it looks like their birthday gift is going to be a public battle over custody on the big day. Jon Gosselin told ET Online (via PEOPLE) that his estranged wife Kate is trying to alter the existing custody arrangement to cut Jon out of the birthday festivities - and he's not having any of it. "She's trying to prevent me from seeing my kids on Mady and Cara's birthday," Jon says. "That's like giving her full custody by obeying her."Gosselin Kids' Birthday Present is an Ugly Custody Squabble
Twins Mady and Cara Gosselin turn 9 this Thursday, and it looks like their birthday gift is going to be a public battle over custody on the big day. Jon Gosselin told ET Online (via PEOPLE) that his estranged wife Kate is trying to alter the existing custody arrangement to cut Jon out of the birthday festivities - and he's not having any of it. "She's trying to prevent me from seeing my kids on Mady and Cara's birthday," Jon says. "That's like giving her full custody by obeying her."Jon claims that Kate wants him at the house between the hours of 4pm and 6pm on Thursday, contrary to their agreed-upon schedule. He says that Kate also wants to alter their agreement for the weekend but insists, "She can't tell me what to do. I'm not going to allow it. I'm just going to stay. I own the house so I can do what I want."
He adds, "She's trying to prevent me from seeing my kids on their birthday because she doesn't want to see me. She doesn't want to hear my apology. She doesn't want to work things out."
Jon quotes an email he says is from Kate, reading: "Due to recent events, it will be too stressful to the kids to have both of us here as planned. I would like to split the evening so they can see us both."
Meanwhile, Kate says she's hoping to use the twins' birthday has a way to keep up her spirits. "That's my focus to get me through the next few days," she tells PEOPLE. "I'm going to bake a chocolate cake from scratch, and that's going to feel normal and happy."
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Jon Gosselin leaving LA with big smile after a week dealing with lawyers Oct 6, 2009 X17agency exclusive
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Jon Gosselin leaving LA with big smile after a week dealing with lawyers Oct 6, 2009 X17agency exclusive
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Jon Gosselin leaving LA with big smile after a week dealing with lawyers Oct 6, 2009 X17agency exclusive
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Jon Gosselin leaving LA with big smile after a week dealing with lawyers Oct 6, 2009 X17agency exclusive
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Jon Gosselin leaving LA with big smile after a week dealing with lawyers Oct 6, 2009 X17agency exclusive
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Jon Gosselin leaving LA with big smile after a week dealing with lawyers Oct 6, 2009 X17agency exclusive
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Jon Gosselin leaving LA with big smile after a week dealing with lawyers Oct 6, 2009 X17agency exclusive
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Jon Gosselin leaving LA with big smile after a week dealing with lawyers Oct 6, 2009 X17agency exclusive
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Jon Gosselin leaving LA with big smile after a week dealing with lawyers Oct 6, 2009 X17agency exclusive
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what a jerk!!!!!!!!!
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He's a jerk because he wants to see his kids on their birthday??? Are you nuts? I bet you'd be the first to post here calling him a deadbeat dad if the article were about him not showing up for his kids' birthday! He is their father and has a right and duty to be there for them regardless of what Kate demands.
Jon is the sorriest excuse of a human let alone a man. You only care about you. Kate doesn't have to listen to your apology. You very publicly let us all see what your all about. $$$$ I hope the courts leave you with out a penny.
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I also think he needs to get a real job. He seems to be living off of everybody else. That house is NOT HIS. That house belongs to the kids. It's time he begins to support those kids, instead of having them support him.
I agree. Because he says words, don't make them true. He is a liar and a cheat. He doesn't stand a chance in court. I hope Kate is able to stop this 50.50 split of the home and custody. That is hurting her kids more than anything. If he was any kind of man, he would have never left to begin with. I have to say, there were times I didn't always love my husband the best, and same for him, but we stuck it out for our kids. And we are all better for it and we are in love in a way that lasts a life time and more because we endured the pain when it hurt, we didn't run. Jon is a loser.
Actually the children do NOT own the house. The deed belongs to both parents. Kate is really a monster to keep Jon away from his childrens'
birthday festivities. If Kate can't handle it let her leave. Jon has every right to be with them. Especially if it is his day to be.
I think people aren't being realistic here. Jon had a job that TLC made him quit for filmning..Let Kate go back to nursing and him back to IT analyst and stop the damn show. That's what doing more harm than good right now.
Not to mention that Jon has a paper trail of the money and they made 75K an episode over 2 million dollars. He didn't take it all. Kate is hiding it and a very bad liar.
I don't buy her pity me act.
As a woman I am ashamed to be in the same gender as a monstrous woman like Kate.
It sure looks like Jon is showing his true nature. Passive/Agressive... very dangerous personality disorder. When aggravated, they go to selfish, irratic and irrational, hurtful, as well as harmful behaviour. Hard to have a lot of sympathy for such a person. PA's appear to always the victim, and let the other person take all of the hits and digs. I think they are the worst kind of vermin. Now we see that Jon really does always get what "he" wants. Kate, you just got a new fan. Poor you and kids having had to put up with this disgrace of a man.
I am soooo sick and tired of the Jon bashing that is going on. Obviously you have never seen an episode of Jon & Kate plus 8. If you did you would know why Jon wanted to get away from that nasty woman thay call Kate. I can only assume from your posts that you truely don't have a clue! I don't agree with the way Jon carried himself after KATE filed for divorce but, that was his choice. If you have been paying attention you would know that Jon only started the TV interviews after Kate did. H*ll I would have done the same if I were in his shoes. The poor man did not have a choice. She was out there bashing him on National Television! You could tell by the end of last season that Jon wanted nothing to do with the TLC show anymore. I have a feeling that this marriage ended due to the fact that Kate wanted to keep recording the show ($$$$$)and that Jon had had enough! I can't wait for you all to see just how big of a loser that Kate is. Just remember the truth will eventually come out. Best of Luck to Jon.
Just remember there is 2 sides to a story. I never use to watch the show but my mother did and always talked about it. So i sat down to watch it one night and i was in shock as to how Kate talked down to her husband. I am not saying he didn't deserve some of it. But there is a thing called respect for one another. If i had some one treating me that way i would have left too. Kids come first and some times it is better to be apart from one another for the sake of the kids. Worse thing she can do as a mother is keep her kids from there father on important days. They may not say anything now, but down the road they will be like why did you do that mommy. Part of the problem today with couples is divorce is too easy. When you have kids you should try to work it out and not just take the easy road and file for divorce. He was wrong for some of his choices but so was she in the way she treated him on the show. If she only did that for ratings then that is sad. No money is worth a relationship especially when there is children involved.
Jon is a sad excuse for a Father or a man. The guy is selfish, a liar, and a cheat. Why should Kate have to see this loser when all he does is try to make things even harder for her. Get a job Jon and support your children instead of partying and sleeping around. Bottom line, Jon is useless. He can't make money on his own, and he can't handle money.
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I have watched all of the episodes and jon was right for leaving her he loves his kids she is a vicious women was he suppose to stay with someone that treated him so badly wow come on watch all the episodes then you'll see he is no angel but she is evil hey both love there kids and should really get to together for there kids not for love but for them children they did it to themselves jon always wanted to stop the show but kate is greedy and likes the money she is not thinking of her kids at this point stop filming was the right thing to do!!!!!!
Jon needs to find a rock and crawl under it....now after months upon months of being a total fool wants to give an apology?????? Go tell it to a priest Jon no one cares
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Funny how people like those 2 find each other and deserve each other....just too bad they had to subject 8 other people to their disfunctional personalities....i will never again watch that show or any new show or any talk show that any of them may have!
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I'm new to this story. How did a guy with Downs Syndrome end up having so many kids? This is amazing!
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OMG! That was too freaking funny!!!!!
Oh PLEASE! John you need to grow up! That was just STUPID!
I'm assuming your saying this from his looks? Jon doesn't have Down's Syndrome. He's half Asian!
She bossy and abrasive and a little full of herself but thet's still no reason for him to schtup to babysitter! And now that the show has dropped his name, he's stomping his feet like a toddler and nixing the whole show! Truth be told Jon, the reason you both did the show in the first place is because you were incapable of supporting your children without the networks support. And the latest is that he robbed those children and their mother by emptying the family bank account. What a piece of garbage! Jon s a loser, he just happened to be on TV. He needs to stop crying like a punk that his wife was mean to him and man up!!!
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I almost felt sorry for him. She's letting him come by. Why ruin the girls birthday because they can't get along. He's the one who called names and is acting the fool. He says he only took $177.000, 10% of their income from the last 4 years. And then in another breath says she's a liar and he never took any money out of the account. He's so ignorant, does he forget that they had bills to pay in the last 4 years, and the money isn't all in cash, it's in other accounts. Those kinds of things are decided by a divorce judge. You don't just get to take what you think you deserve. He should get a job if he needs money.
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Kate - use a little reverse psychology. Tell him you want him there all day and you would like for him to help with the cake.......bet cha a coke that he tells you he'll be there between 4 and 6.
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