Jon Gosselin Wants to Make Amends to Hailey, Kate, Etc.

It is very dis-heartening to hear so many negatively biased opinions based on semi-factual media reporting. Unless someone personally spends time with any of the Gosselin's, or Hailey first hand....a solid opinion based on media reports in today's blatantly biased media world is highly irresponsible of anyone. Everyone involved has their own version of how it's all going down.....but there can be only one truth, and we all know it's not going to come from today's media.

She might meet someone but she will boss him around and try do run the whole relationship on her terms and find herself alone again. She is VERY controling and she will have to take a look at herself first before she looks for another man. It isn't easy to look at ourselves and make changes....

Why is it that people are so interested in other people's drama and miseries?. Don't you all have drama in your life that will last you a lifetime?

It was Kate who wouldn't go to marriage counseling. And Kate, according to her brother only went to church for the show. Jon was dressing the kids ( as usual) and everything was always a the last minute because of the control freak Kate.

in short, he's a stupid, greedy little bastard.

Did you not read the article? It was one of his chippies who was telling all. As far as Kate being the better person, her whining on TV about money and crying poor me all the time has gotten old. No, Jon has done right by putting himself out there for the world to see. Why hasn't Kate stepped back and spent more time with the kids? Because she's greedy! She will have to meet a very strong man to stand up to her bad mouthing. Of course, she always smiled as she put Jon down!

SOME MEN ARE REALLY BIG IMMATURE BABIES THAT NEED TO BE TOLD WHAT TO DO OR THEY SIT WITH THEIR THUMB UP THEIR BUTT!!!!

Thank you. You hit it on the nose

Yet YOU watched the show-then clicked on this story- read it-then took the time to comment on it?

Well put. I agree. Kate should move on and rise above that creep. Abusive loser. He destroys everything in his path and should have shaperoned
visitation.

I find all of this "man-hating" and "woman-hating" banter to most likely be a strong reflection of the actual person commenting, and yet as sad as it, is so many people are using this as their entertainment and it just fuels their appetite for more conflict, anger and resentment in their lives, it adds to their anger and heightens their emotions as if that is needed. It would be really nice if we could find role models to be entertained by that show couples how to be trusting and show some humility and the ability to rise above the pettyness that brings about such anger and resentment. We are a world of people thriving on love and acceptance and we have such a need for inspirational role models that it is quite remarkable that no one has found a way to capitalize on it. Would it be too much to ask to try and find happiness and enlightenment entertaining. I have watched the show, some early and some late and there was always some underlying tension between them. No one will ever know the whole truth, the what, where, why, when and all of that and so you are all left to speculation and guesswork, and then you get all worked up over that. Imagine if you found out that this ALL was a set up, just to create a show. How foolish would you feel if all of your emotions and feelings over this were just a fantasy. Why not just watch the show and live your own life and not get so wrapped up in someone elses life problems that it causes you anger and the need to vent about it? It seems as if everyone who is talking about Jon this, and Kate that, need some kind of a hobby or at least something to do in their life. None of you are going to have a effect on the Gosselins life, so why keep commenting about it. In closing, the most you people should take away from this show and the direction it and the lives of the people involved in it have taken, are some life lessons on how not to be selfish, petty, controling and jealous in any of your relationships, let love acceptance humility and understanding into your everyday life, especially when it comes to your marrige and your children, as these seem to me to be the key issues at hand that tore apart what could have been a great family legacy for the Gosselins and the life that this show could have built for them, their children and ultimately their descendants for a long time, but the publics need to be involved and "keep up with the Gosselins" has all conspired to leave them with a healthy dose of human nature and the resulting saddness that comes from making poor choices when it comes to family. Hopefully their are some out there that can learn from these troubles and avoid them, because to not learn anything from this family tradgedy would be such a great loss, as the children are the biggest victims here, with no say in anything and directly in the path of all the destruction that it has wrought, I challenge you to find value in any of this, as I'm sure the kids would trade all of this in for their family back in a heartbeat, and if their parents had half of a heart they would too. It is wrong to waste a lifetime that can be filled with love with a lifetime of heartache for the sake of a poor choice or a selfishly stubborn will.I find all of this "man-hating" and "woman-hating" banter to most likely be a strong reflection of the actual person commenting, and yet as sad as it, is so many people are using this as their entertainment and it just fuels their appetite for more conflict, anger and resentment in their lives, it adds to their anger and heightens their emotions as if that is needed. It would be really nice if we could find role models to be entertained by that show couples how to be trusting and show some humility and the ability to rise above the pettyness that brings about such anger and resentment. We are a world of people thriving on love and acceptance and we have such a need for inspirational role models that it is quite remarkable that no one has found a way to capitalize on it. Would it be too much to ask to try and find happiness and enlightenment entertaining. I have watched the show, some early and some late and there was always some underlying tension between them. No one will ever know the whole truth, the what, where, why, when and all of that and so you are all left to speculation and guesswork, and then you get all worked up over that. Imagine if you found out that this ALL was a set up, just to create a show. How foolish would you feel if all of your emotions and feelings over this were just a fantasy. Why not just watch the show and live your own life and not get so wrapped up in someone elses life problems that it causes you anger and the need to vent about it? It seems as if everyone who is talking about Jon this, and Kate that, need some kind of a hobby or at least something to do in their life. None of you are going to have a effect on the Gosselins life, so why keep commenting about it. In closing, the most you people should take away from this show and the direction it and the lives of the people involved in it have taken, are some life lessons on how not to be selfish, petty, controling and jealous in any of your relationships, let love acceptance humility and understanding into your everyday life, especially when it comes to your marrige and your children, as these seem to me to be the key issues at hand that tore apart what could have been a great family legacy for the Gosselins and the life that this show could have built for them, their children and ultimately their descendants for a long time, but the publics need to be involved and "keep up with the Gosselins" has all conspired to leave them with a healthy dose of human nature and the resulting saddness that comes from making poor choices when it comes to family. Hopefully their are some out there that can learn from these troubles and avoid them, because to not learn anything from this family tradgedy would be such a great loss, as the children are the biggest victims here, with no say in anything and directly in the path of all the destruction that it has wrought, I challenge you to find value in any of this, as I'm sure the kids would trade all of this in for their family back in a heartbeat, and if their parents had half of a heart they would too. It is wrong to waste a lifetime that can be filled with love with a lifetime of heartache for the sake of a poor choice or a selfishly stubborn will.I find all of this "man-hating" and "woman-hating" banter to most likely be a strong reflection of the actual person commenting, and yet as sad as it, is so many people are using this as their entertainment and it just fuels their appetite for more conflict, anger and resentment in their lives, it adds to their anger and heightens their emotions as if that is needed. It would be really nice if we could find role models to be entertained by that show couples how to be trusting and show some humility and the ability to rise above the pettyness that brings about such anger and resentment. We are a world of people thriving on love and acceptance and we have such a need for inspirational role models that it is quite remarkable that no one has found a way to capitalize on it. Would it be too much to ask to try and find happiness and enlightenment entertaining. I have watched the show, some early and some late and there was always some underlying tension between them. No one will ever know the whole truth, the what, where, why, when and all of that and so you are all left to speculation and guesswork, and then you get all worked up over that. Imagine if you found out that this ALL was a set up, just to create a show. How foolish would you feel if all of your emotions and feelings over this were just a fantasy. Why not just watch the show and live your own life and not get so wrapped up in someone elses life problems that it causes you anger and the need to vent about it? It seems as if everyone who is talking about Jon this, and Kate that, need some kind of a hobby or at least something to do in their life. None of you are going to have a effect on the Gosselins life, so why keep commenting about it. In closing, the most you people should take away from this show and the direction it and the lives of the people involved in it have taken, are some life lessons on how not to be selfish, petty, controling and jealous in any of your relationships, let love acceptance humility and understanding into your everyday life, especially when it comes to your marrige and your children, as these seem to me to be the key issues at hand that tore apart what could have been a great family legacy for the Gosselins and the life that this show could have built for them, their children and ultimately their descendants for a long time, but the publics need to be involved and "keep up with the Gosselins" has all conspired to leave them with a healthy dose of human nature and the resulting saddness that comes from making poor choices when it comes to family. Hopefully their are some out there that can learn from these troubles and avoid them, because to not learn anything from this family tradgedy would be such a great loss, as the children are the biggest victims here, with no say in anything and directly in the path of all the destruction that it has wrought, I challenge you to find value in any of this, as I'm sure the kids would trade all of this in for their family back in a heartbeat, and if their parents had half of a heart they would too. It is wrong to waste a lifetime that can be filled with love with a lifetime of heartache for the sake of a poor choice or a selfishly stubborn will.I find all of this "man-hating" and "woman-hating" banter to most likely be a strong reflection of the actual person commenting, and yet as sad as it, is so many people are using this as their entertainment and it just fuels their appetite for more conflict, anger and resentment in their lives, it adds to their anger and heightens their emotions as if that is needed. It would be really nice if we could find role models to be entertained by that show couples how to be trusting and show some humility and the ability to rise above the pettyness that brings about such anger and resentment. We are a world of people thriving on love and acceptance and we have such a need for inspirational role models that it is quite remarkable that no one has found a way to capitalize on it. Would it be too much to ask to try and find happiness and enlightenment entertaining. I have watched the show, some early and some late and there was always some underlying tension between them. No one will ever know the whole truth, the what, where, why, when and all of that and so you are all left to speculation and guesswork, and then you get all worked up over that. Imagine if you found out that this ALL was a set up, just to create a show. How foolish would you feel if all of your emotions and feelings over this were just a fantasy. Why not just watch the show and live your own life and not get so wrapped up in someone elses life problems that it causes you anger and the need to vent about it? It seems as if everyone who is talking about Jon this, and Kate that, need some kind of a hobby or at least something to do in their life. None of you are going to have a effect on the Gosselins life, so why keep commenting about it. In closing, the most you people should take away from this show and the direction it and the lives of the people involved in it have taken, are some life lessons on how not to be selfish, petty, controling and jealous in any of your relationships, let love acceptance humility and understanding into your everyday life, especially when it comes to your marrige and your children, as these seem to me to be the key issues at hand that tore apart what could have been a great family legacy for the Gosselins and the life that this show could have built for them, their children and ultimately their descendants for a long time, but the publics need to be involved and "keep up with the Gosselins" has all conspired to leave them with a healthy dose of human nature and the resulting saddness that comes from making poor choices when it comes to family. Hopefully their are some out there that can learn from these troubles and avoid them, because to not learn anything from this family tradgedy would be such a great loss, as the children are the biggest victims here, with no say in anything and directly in the path of all the destruction that it has wrought, I challenge you to find value in any of this, as I'm sure the kids would trade all of this in for their family back in a heartbeat, and if their parents had half of a heart they would too. It is wrong to waste a lifetime that can be filled with love with a lifetime of heartache for the sake of a poor choice or a selfishly stubborn will.