For the first time, Chaz Bono, born to Cher and the late Sonny Bono as Chastity, opened up about his new life as a man, in an exclusive interview with 'Good Morning America.' "This was a very difficult decision to make, but it is the best decision I've ever made. I'm happier. I'm more confident. I feel great," he said.Chaz Bono: Gender Is Between Your Ears, Not Between Your Legs
By PopEater Staff Posted Nov 19th 2009 10:05AM
For the first time, Chaz Bono, born to Cher and the late Sonny Bono as Chastity, opened up about his new life as a man, in an exclusive interview with 'Good Morning America.' "This was a very difficult decision to make, but it is the best decision I've ever made. I'm happier. I'm more confident. I feel great," he said."It would be easy to say, 'Why did I wait so long to do this?' but I am a person who believes things will happen when they're suppose to happen. I was ready when I was ready. Life is just great now," he said.
Bono, who has served as a LGBT (lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender) civil rights advocate, began the gender-changing process earlier this year, following his 40th birthday. His publicist announced Bono's decision to undergo gender reassignment in June. He is currently living with his girlfriend Jennifer.
Bono has undergone breast removal surgery and began taking hormones to alter his appearance. "It was just a long process of being comfortable enough to do something about it. I was turning 40, and I thought it's now or never," he said.
"Gender is between your ears and not between your legs. I've felt male for as far back as I can remember," he said. "As I child, I felt like a boy. My friends were boys and in school, I related to boys. If a game broke out [with] girls against the boys, I was always with the boys."
But as Bono hit puberty, there were obstacles to overcome pressures from society to conform. "As you get older, it gets more confusing. Suddenly there is more pressure to fit into your assigned identity... At 13 or 14, it was real clear I was attracted to women," stating that he tried to take the easy way out and assumed he must be a lesbian.
Bono knew it went much deeper than that though. "I've only been on hormone therapy for about eight months now... I feel so much more comfortable than I've ever been, but [there's] more to come," he said. "The first hurtle was that I wouldn't be able to do this privately like most people can. Then, it was about dealing with the people in my life and how it was going to affect them... I have to live my life for myself and life is too short and precious. This is who I am, and I need to finally be who I am."
At this point, Bono admits nothing really scares him anymore about the transformation. "Nothing. Absolutely nothing. I needed to work through the things that scared me in order to start this journey. At this point, nothing scares me. I'm living the life that I've always wanted to live now and that's amazing."
While Bono never sought to be a public figure of the LGBT community, he is taking it in stride. "I'm not looking at it as campaigning. I struggled a lot getting here. If by being public about [my transformation], other people can see this and not have to struggle quite as much as I did, than I'm really happy to do that."
"If I can help make things easier, legislation wise, I'm happy to do that as well. I've been an activist in the LGBT community for a long time, and I don't think that really anything as changed. I'm just more focused on the T now than I was with the L and the G," he laughed.
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Thursday 19 November
By Coco
If gender is between your ears and not between your legs........why have the surgery? Hmmmmmmm?
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Thursday 19 November
By melanie
Exactly! Besides that, this freak will be dead in a few years from a heart attack. I guess she thinks trying to be a man means you don't have to watch your weight. And yes, I said she, because that is what God made her and try as she may, will never truely be a man.
Thursday 19 November
By chris
All I have to say is that he needs to lose some weight!
Sunday 22 November
By Bonnie
she or he needs to loose weight bad. or die from a heart attack
Thursday 19 November
By fred
between your ears? this is your brain on drugs
Thursday 19 November
By LadyWiccan
it would be fine if people would accept that, but they don't. If you are born a female and feel like a man most of sociatty will not accept you same way with a man.
Thursday 19 November
By Simzee
Perhaps Chaz does NOT understand that "he" will ALWAYS be a female on the inside.
Thursday 19 November
By X
Because sex is between the legs and gender is a social construct. I wish people would use the terms right, its very simple. You can NOT have gender reassigment surgery, its sex reassignment surgery. Even our 5 year old knows the difference.
Thursday 19 November
By harperbharp
WTF. Just said God made a mistake. Maybe he did in making this person in the first place. God didn't do it Satan got in. Gotta be. What a strange world we live in.
Thursday 19 November
By maryann
Because society is big time into appearances.
Forget your personal truth that you found, all
must fit into the Gender Binary.
Thursday 19 November
By Marty
Amen to that one! This "guy" makes me sick just to look at. This is a nut case if I've ever heard of one. You're right - if gender isn't between the legs then WHY the sex change? Good question about the girlfriend? Is she now heterosexual?
Thursday 19 November
By tt
just be happy for him and let him live his life....do any of you really care about him anyway??? lol
Thursday 19 November
By Hacker427
First off, the saying is right. Gender is a concept, something that exists in the mind as the roles we assume in society, while sex is the physical body parts we have. I don't really care to argue whether it's right or not to get a sex change but what's wrong with you all to where you have to be so hateful about the subject? Would you say these kind of things to the persons face? What if someone in your family decided to do this, would you suddenly be against them? Everyone's different in some way or another, we don't have to agree with them being different but that doesn't mean we have to talk about them like they're dirt every chance we get. Here in America we have a lot of rights, but our rights end where other's rights begin. Everyone has the right to the pursuit of hapinness and if that's what makes this individual happy then I say go for it, but now I have to ask, does it make you happy to say such bad things about them?
Thursday 19 November
By johnjfoote
OK Chaz if gender is between your ears and not your legs why the operation? You should be happy for what God gave you.
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Thursday 19 November
By quinana2001
I agree, be thankful what you were given at birth, God doesn't make mistakes- often times we're the ones that are confused. Speaking of confusion- does this mean "his" girlfriend is straight now that "she" is a "he". How does that work? If a gay person has a sex "re-assignment" doesn't that make their partner a heterosexual? Isn't that what God intented in the first place!!
Thursday 19 November
By J
They get the surgery to match their outside with their inside. Please educate yourself on the subject instead of making your self look like an ignorant person.
Thursday 19 November
By Marselli
Tell me, why does this have to involve God? And also, the vile, nasty words that some of you are spitting, I doubt that God would be proud such a thing.
Jonathan Swift may have said best, "We have just enough religion to make us hate, but not enough to make us love one another."
Thursday 19 November
By Jane T.
If Chaz doesn't get his weight under control, he's not going to be around long to enjoy his transformation.
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Thursday 19 November
By kittensaustin
Couln't have said it better myself!
Thursday 19 November
By thom
PEOPLE LIKE THIS DONT CARE FOR THEMSELVES- IT'S APPEARANCE SPEAKS LOUD AND CLEAR !
THAT'S WHY THEY LIVE SUCH WRECKLESS LIVES. SOME WHERE ALONG THE LINE THEY BECMA TWISTED.
ALWAYS BLAME THE PARENTS, IT STARTS AT THE TOP. JUST LIKE OUR BROKEN ECONOMY.......