John Mayer Not a Racist, Just a Guy Who Says Stupid Things

John Mayer is in a bit of trouble. The guitarist used the N-word in an interview with Playboy and is now trying to recover from what could be a costly mistake.
"Someone asked me the other day, 'What does it feel like now to have a hood pass?' And by the way, it's sort of a contradiction in terms, because if you really had a hood pass, you could call it a n**** pass. Why are you pulling a punch and calling it a hood pass if you really have a hood pass? But I said, 'I can't really have a hood pass' I've never walked into a restaurant, asked for a table and been told, 'We're full.'" he said. After the article came out, Mayer frantically apologized on his Twitter account.
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Re: using the 'N word' in an interview: I am sorry that I used the word. And it's such a shame that I did because the point I was trying to make was in the exact opposite spirit of the word itself. It was arrogant of me to think I could intellectualize using it, because I realize that there's no intellectualizing a word that is so emotionally charged," he tweeted.
But is Mayer really racist? Or just a fool who shoots his mouth off too much?
At a concert, Mayer offered his apologies again for using the racial slur. "I went as I've begun to do, into a wormhole of selfishness and greed and arrogance, thinking that if I just continued to be witty and pull together the most fast phrases that I could, that I could be clever enough to buy myself another day without thinking that anybody had finally pinned me down and said, 'you're a creep.'"
We actually believe he's sorry. While his actions were certainly misguided, he didn't use the word as a name-calling tactic.
This isn't the first time Mayer's verbal diarrhea caused trouble. In fact, in the very same interview, he described former flame Jessica Simpson as "sexual napalm." Eek. Clearly, Mayer likes to kiss and tell.
He also dished on his breakup with Jennifer Aniston. "We just have a regard for each other's feelings that is pretty intense. It's been a deep relationship, and it's no longer taking place at all. Have you ever loved somebody, loved her completely, but had to end the relationship for life reasons?"
He then went on to talk about his penis in an unflattering light: "My d*** is sort of like a white supremacist. I've got a Benetton heart and a David Duke c***. I'm going to start dating separately from my d***."
But the 'Your Body Is a Wonderland' singer is no stranger to saying other dumb things.
This
gem was attributed to him by the New York Post. "When I get married that's gonna be my vows, 'Do you, John Mayer, take this woman to have and to hold, to wear her ass like headgear?' Yes, I do -- you're the one whose ass I wanna wear like a hat for the rest of my life."
Oh yeah, and he thinks he knows what could have saved Tiger Woods. "If Tiger Woods only knew when to j*** off. It has a true market value, like gold bullion," Mayer told
Rolling Stone. Masturbation is always fair game for John.
He also admitted to the music mag that all his dreams about sex include the paparazzi. "I have not had a woman appear in my dreams sexually without a paparazzi in the dream too. I can't even have a wet dream without having to explain to someone who's grinding on me, 'We can't do this right now, because there's a guy over there taking pictures.' I don't know how much further I can do this before I'm a dead body on the side of the road."
Back in October, after
reports that he called a New York Magazine reporter a "moron" and said he wanted to "forcefully sodomize" her editor, he warned us that he didn't want to be misquoted. "I'm going to walk around with a little tape recorder from now on. It won't have any batteries or anything in it. I'm just going to walk around with it. You can get away with more."
Well, maybe instead of worrying about your words being taken out of context, why don't you just worry about what you're actually saying.
Of course, we don't condone the usage of the N-word -- even if he was trying to intellectualize it, as he claims. But Mayer doesn't strike us as a racist, just a blabbermouth who doesn't know when to shut up.
Like Kanye West, whose made a name for himself by spouting his mouth off, Mayer should disappear for a while. After West interrupted Taylor Swift's Best Female Video acceptance speech at the MTV VMAs, he made several public apologies and a few personal ones to Swift, then promptly fell off the face of the Earth, hopefully to return with another great album.
Which is exactly what Mayer needs to do. Go away for a while, come back and play the guitar. Counseling may not really be an option, as he
knows "
they don't make rehab centers for being an a**hole."
In the end, his words were racist, but we don't think he himself is.
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The more he sings the more I sleep..he is a wanna be..he is trying hard for nothing..he has absolutely no talent...and is a huge racist!!!! Get a life!!!!!!!!
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big deal , he said the N word in a playboy interview, so what. pretty much everyone has used that word but wont admit it. Using the N word doesent make someone a racist. Just go pick up a rap album im sure you will find plenty of it there, but no one calls them racist.
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John Mayer is a muscian. I love his music and think he is extremly talented. I could care less who he is dating or what he is saying. If i judged the music I listened to by the political or personal life of the artist I'd be missing out on some great stuff! (like Bruce Springsteen!)
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If you "could care less", you obviously care. The correct term is "I couldn't care less!"
It wasn't meant in racist terms so what's the big deal? Yes, he says stupid things but don't we all? He makes great music but he isn't trying to portray himself as a philosopher or politico so stop taking everything he says so seriously.
Kepp playing John, your Charleston show was great!
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John Mayer is an ass with a mouth, Some men think it is so "manly" to be with several different women, when in fact a "real" man only needs one...........Why is it he keeps looking for what he has already had...
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I've got news for you people...if you have ever even noticed that someone is black, YOU ARE A RACIST.
I'll tell you what else, if you have ever even THOUGHT of the (14th letter in the alphabet) word, YOU SHOULD DIE!!!
Now, if you'll excuse me, I'm going to go work as a slave for a black family. You know, for reparations.... It's the least I can do.
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Sounds like that is a good thing for you to do. Turn about is fair play. It's about time. Proud of you
If you can't say the F-word, you can't say F-word the government. If you can't say the N-word, you can't say N-word Pleeease.
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"WHO'S made a name" NOT "WHOSE" made a name...
Can you guys PLEASE invest in an editor?
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Thanks, Kate. Now we can all sleep at night!
Both you and your buddy Leroy are idiots. Trolling message boards looking to be first so you can gloat about it is moronic. Grow up.
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dont talk, just sing you punk.
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Who in the heck reads Playboy anymore??? I let my subscription lapse to Playboy simply for the fact they thought we were all infatuated with Pamela Anderson. Granted, she is good looking, but who wants to see her 3-4 times yearly in Playboy??? Not me, that is why Playboy is no longer delivered to my mailbox! And I no longer listen to any stories from their writers!!!!!!!!
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I wish him all the love and happiness of being gang raped by the Village People. Maybe they can sodimize him first while the paparazzi take photos to fulfill his dreams!
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Good one Stewy, rotflmao!!
He should go back to Jennifer - they were perfect together.
jaybee
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john is an awsome guitarist. It is obvious that alot of his influences are guitarist of color: Buddy Guy, B.B. King, Albert King, Jimmy Hendrix... Do I think he is a racist ? Hell no.A liitle flipant with his remarks ? Sure, I'll buy that. You Know the saying: young,dumb and full of c--. All that beig said, he is still an awesome artist.
Guitar Doc
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I have to say im a little twisted up with John Mayer. I love the guy as a musician, and probably always will. However Ive never cared much for John as a person. I dont think he is a racist, in the traditional aspect. I just believe he is a "Super Arrogant" type of guy. I honestly think he just believes what ever he says and does at that moment will be accepted by the rest of the world, which he views as peasants. He simply just doesnt appear the care for or about people other than himself.
Further more I dont think he honestly appreciates other peoples talents. To him none of them are even close to his level of talent and intelect. He never seems to show due respect to the others in his life with matched talent. Jennifer Love Hewitt, Jennifer Anniston (especially), and Jissica Simpson. Im sure that only scratches the surface. Im sure he also has no respect for others such as Brad Pitt, and Gerard Butler. The other men in the lives of his former flames.
Im sorry to think so poorly of someone who's music I like so much, but Ive never been one to be "Star struck" either. I can appreciate the talent and not the star, (Tom Cruise). I dont think John Mayor will ever get over himself, but of course I will never have to live with him. I only feel for those who have made the mistake of trusting him.
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The fact that anyone would need a hood pass tells you more about racism than anyone using the n word can.
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