Is it really that these husbands feel emasculated or rather is it that these females have developed a truly unrealistic view of their own self importance?

Well I see it like this,People or most I should say do not know what real love is and what the meaning of marriage is. the ring reprisents the full circle of love,sighning papers dose not mean U own some one, it's a bout loveing one a nother till death do U's part. actor's more than actresses play around, and they get mad because they don't believe in liberality. so if they cheat work it out if not U R intitled to a devorce, marriage and love means U accept any and every thing about that person. love is a grand thing don't abuse it glorify it with GOD. take care GOD bless U both and Sandra U R a very Beautiful woman and I love you good luck.

I think a curse on female winners of an oscar is a crock! I suggest you do an analyist of divorces & break ups in the acting profession & you may find the number higher than 61%!

I agree with you 100 percent. There is no Oscar curse, just mates you should curse out. Move on. He had me fooled too, I must admit, but what a disappointment.

if you really want my opinion here it is.sandra bullock,can get
any man she want,but if she love her husband she can forgive him
and give him a chance to changes,but if he doesn't changes sandra
bullock,can nmake up her mind if she want him or not.sandra bullock is my idol and for me she a good person even do i never meet her,its up to her.

It's not some cursed object or award; that's retarded. It's more that they are picking men who are not secure enough in their masculinity to handle a woman that is more successful than them, so they act like morons. End of story.

I don't think we have to worry about this 'journaist' losing their job for being too serious.

stupid, I like how they include susan sarandon, split 15 yrs after winning, yeah, that's some curse. buttheads. it's hollywood/celebs, they're all freaks and weirdos with the morals of a dog.

First of all, she married him because he was a "Bad Boy", and wanted that dangerous image and...she got it along with all the baggage. I think she'll stay but there will probably be some really serious understandings to be made for longevity to have a chance.

Much more to consider; what about the father of her children?
A great deal of men cheat might as well stay with the one you know.

You portray the fellow in these breakups as suffering from being emasculated as though it were something they were guilty of, and not the woman. Hey, if a woman tried to cut off my jewels, I wouldn't stand for it, no matter who she might be. On the other hand, I'm secure enough that if SB wanted to love and support me, I'd be right there by her side no matter where she went. Sounds like a job worth taking to me.

of course there are 'more fish in the sea' - too bad actors only look for these fish in the waters of hollywood - where disappointment is part of the glamour. the man was with a porn star before Sandra.... doesn't that give you a clue? Did his persona change after that - no. He was still bad ass J. Sandra knew this going in... she liked having the 'bad boy' as a husband. Unfortunately, she was delusional when she thought 'I can change him, he'll be a loyal, considerate, family man'. You Reap what you sow. Sorry Sandra, but it's your just rewards. Better luck with the next hollywood chap.

She fell in love with a Major Player... And when she moved forward.. Way out of his Class he fell back to his roots. JJ is low class and SB came from a family with class.. Hum...and are we surprised? Think not.

You're right...if women had more respect for themselves and other women, we wouldn't always be going after someone's husband. It takes two to tango and the woman is certainly just as much to blame as the filandering husband.

I am inclined to agree with you, but let's not distract ourselves from the fact that as the married person, the responsibility to not cheat was on him, period. Not the tattooed mistress, and it certainly doesn't sound like he was an innocent victim being taken advantage of - more like he pursued it aggressively and willingly. Yes, this girl is an idiot, yes, she shares the blame, but he is the one who carries the weight of it for a reason. Sandy was always too good for him and I hope that even if she does forgive him, she doesn't go back to him.

Stephanie - I disagree - respect for self and respect for other women has nothing to do with why a woman will sleep with another woman's husband, there are more factors involved other than self respect - if that was the case, then all problems would be solved if women just took a counseling course in self esteem and respect and the whole fidelity issue would disappear!! And, why is it the responsibility of the woman to say "no - no affair your married?" Are you saying men can't help themselves, so its the woman's place to act responsiblity for both parties? If that's the case, then men are weak, lack self esteem and respect for other men. Its wonderful how you demean the entire male/ female population - lo love my hubby, but he knows that if Adam Scott ever came around and said, let's "bump uglies or I'm taking you away to Australia" I'd be gone, just as I know that if Mariah Carey came along and wanted him and opened the limo door to whisk him away to Hollywood, he'd be gone. And to be honest, I wouldn't be mad at him. I might even be proud -"hey look - he used to be my hubby! HA HA HA

I agree with you

men are wired to spread their seed and woman are designed to nurture there offspring it's just how we are wired

Here,here. Bravo.
Women need to start the "Girls Club" and protect each other. Any woman that is propositioned by a married/living together man should reply "You're obviously a cheat-what makes you think I would want you?" Then his ONLY 2 options would be to stay faithful to the woman he's with or honorably end the relationship and move on.
Then we would have a decent moralistic society to live in. Right now the idea is Utopia....women have the power to make it a real future for us and our daughters.