The Curse of the Best Actress Oscar?

With the news of Sandra Bullock's husband's alleged infidelity and Kate Winslet's impending divorce from Sam Mendes, we realized that the last two winners of the Best Actress Academy Award both have had marital issues.
Looking back, it's more than just these two whose relationships disintegrated after they won the coveted award. Reese Witherspoon scooped up the honor in 2006, and lost husband Ryan Phillippe in 2007. And there are many more.
It may be every actress' dream to win a Best Actress Oscar -- but unfortunately, it may come at the cost of the men in their lives. We have to ask -- is the award cursed? Bonnie Fuller,
Editor-in-Chief of HollywoodLife.com, believes it is.
"I absolutely think it's cursed. It's sad but true that in this day and age it's a rare treasure of a man who can handle being married to a hugely successful woman -- especially one who's more successful at the current time than they are," she tells PopEater.
More importantly, how does Oscar hurt relationships? "Many men feel emasculated by strong women and this can be an especially big problem if women are in very visible positions -- and what can be more visible than winning an Oscar. If the men are also in a competitive profession, i.e. they're also an actor or in a similarly artistic profession, they may feel insecure about their wife or girlfriend's success. And that can really damage their relationship," Fuller adds. (
Watch Bonnie Address Jesse James Here)
See whom it's affected and what went wrong after the jump!
Sandra Bullock: 'The Blind Side,' 2010
Just weeks after she accepted her Oscar, rumors of husband Jesse James' infidelity reportedly led Bullock to move out of the home they shared together
Did Oscar play a role? James is a reality TV star and Bullock's the first woman to headline a movie that made over $200M. You do the math.
Kate Winslet: 'The Reader,' 2009
The same week that Sandra fled her house, Winslet announced she and husband Sam Mendes were separating. The couple married in 2003 and have one son, plus Kate's daughter from a previous marriage.
Did Oscar play a role? Mendes is an Oscar-winning director. But he's been much more inconsistent than Winslet. With six nods and one win, Kate is always at the top of her game, while Mendes has received mixed reviews for his post-'American Beauty' work -- including 'Revolutionary Road' with his estranged wife. (She won a Golden Globe for her role in that film, but the movie itself failed to click on the awards circuit.)
Reese Witherspoon: 'Walk the Line,' 2006
Over a year after taking home the award for playing June Carter Cash, Witherspoon filed for divorce from husband Ryan Phillippe, despite seven years of marriage and two children, amid reports he was cheating with his 'Stop Loss' co-star Abbie Cornish, with whom he later had a relationship.
Did Oscar play a role? Ryan's career has lagged way behind Reese's since 'Cruel Intention' -- he even lacks his own page on Box Office Mojo, a site that tabulates stars' box office ratings. (His latest star turn, 'Loss,' grossed just 10.9 million.) The Oscar highlights this disparity.

Hilary Swank: 'Million Dollar Baby,' 2005, and 'Boys Don't Cry, 2000
Swank and her husband of almost 10 years, Chad Lowe, announced their decision to split in January of 2006, finalizing their divorce later that year.
Did Oscar play a role? The last thing we remember Lowe doing is an episode of 'Bones.' That doesn't hold up well to a two-time Academy Award winner.
Charlize Theron: 'Monster,' 2004
Theron and longtime boyfriend actor Stuart Townsend, who had been dating for 9 years, broke up this past January.
Did Oscar play a role? Townsend who? Have you seen 'Maggie Hill,' 'Chaos Theory' or any episodes of 'Night Stalker'?
Halle Berry: 'Monster's Ball,' 2002
Berry and husband, singer Eric Benet, ended their four year marriage in 2003, allegedly due to his sex addiction.
Did Oscar play a role? Think of it this way. When was the last time you listened to Benet's music on your iPod?

Julia Roberts: 'Erin Brockovich,' 2001
Although they dated for four years, Roberts and Benjamin Bratt dissolved their union months after Julia's big Oscar night.
Did Oscar play a role? Sure, Bratt is recognizable from his 'Law & Order' days, but he's nothing compared to the tour-de-force that is America's sweetheart.
Gwyneth Paltrow: 'Shakespeare in Love,' 1999
The normally very secretive Paltrow thanked Ben Affleck in her acceptance speech, but a few months later, they permanently called it quits after three years of an on-again, off-again romance.
Did Oscar play a role? This could be the one exception. Affleck already had his own Oscar, and Paltrow and he were equally well-known. (And at the time, he may have been more so.)
Helen Hunt: 'As Good as It Gets,' 1998
Engaged in 1997 and married in 1999, Hunt's relationship with 'Simpsons' voice-actor Hank Azaria didn't last long after her 'Good' achievement.
Did Oscar play a role? When they first got together, Hunt was a small-screen star who became the first to be paid $1 million per episode for 'Mad About You.' Then, in her first leading big-screen appearance,' she wins an Oscar. Azaria, on the other hand, is best known for his 'Simpsons' characters.

Susan Sarandon: 'Dead Man Walking,' 1996
There was a significant amount of time between her win and the crumbling of their 23 year partnership, but Sarandon and actor Tim Robbins broke up in late 2009.
Did Oscar play a role? Robbins also has his own statuette. But it was for Best Supporting Actor. One could only imagine what would have happened if he'd won for lead actor.
Emma Thompson: 'Howard's End,' 1993
Married in 1989, director-actor Kenneth Branagh and Thompson were divorced in 1995, two years after Emma earned gold.
Did Oscar play a role? Branagh has four Oscar nominations, but zero wins to Emma Thompson's two. (She also won for best adapted screenplay in 1996.)
We'd like to believe that winning Best Actress doesn't automatically reduce the chances that your marriage or relationship will last. (We're rooting for Helen Mirren and Taylor Hackford to make it.) But 61% of the award's winners since 1993 have had troubles in their love lives after. Those just aren't great odds. In the end, however, it could just be one big coincidence.
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Why do I get the impression that the writer thinks men SHOULD feel emasculated by a successful woman? Is the writer a man or a woman?
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Is there such a thing as fidelity left in this world? If women like Sandra are getting cheated on, I don't think there is any hope left for the rest of us.
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It has nothing to do with the Oscar... these women are always attracted to self-involved men who fulfill the insecurities that most of these women have - just like men with their ditsy blonds. One look at the guy tells the whole story.
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Well he just lost the best thing that ever happened to him, or ever will... Hit the spa, take some chill time. I always hit the spa and magic kingdom when a guy turns out to be a loser. you can't be sad when your getting body treatments, and riden roller coasters.
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I BET SANDRA WISHES SHE KEPT THAT STUPID TIGER WOODS JOKE SHE MADE TO HERSELF NOW! YOU CAN TAKE YOUR FOOT OUT OF YOUR MOUTH WHENEVER READY.SHE REALIZES THAT SHE WAS JUST A TROPHY OF BAD BOY JESSE,I LIKE HER AS AN ACTRESS BUT SHE GETS NO SYMPATHY FROM ME.
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MS Sandra follow your heart, people always say I wouldn't take that if I was you however you would be surprise what they would take I love your movies and wish the best for you as a person, take care of yourself.
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Sandra is my favorite actress she deserves better
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Lets face the facts. Strong driven women dont need to take crap from loosers in their lives. Dump the bad baggage and move on ladies!
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Let me start with i'm in a 20 year marriage and it a good marriage, so i'm not a jaded woman who hates men. with that said i'll tell you why men do these these things because there women arestrong busy women that are not at waiting at home to stroke there rediculious ego's. women have been backing there men for decades. left at home with kids for most of there marriages and some how not to jump in the first bed of a man that says hey you're pretty hot,i never met anyone like you, your husband does'nt understand you. and now i said my peace so for all the men who are not weakminded i'm giving you guys a SHOUT OUT!!!!! and women they are out there.
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Cheating is like a box of chocolates, you never know what you're gonna get.
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It's not coincidence, it's just Hollywood.
It takes a very, very, VERY special relationship to survive extended periods of separation (as is the case with almost all Hollywood marriages). I know whereof I speak, because I used to travel for work and it is almost impossible to have a vibrant marriage/family life under those conditions.
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Here's what goes on with men. They can have sex with other women and still be in love with their wives. They do not equate sex with love. Period. Women do. The majority of women when they have sex with a man they most of the time think they are in love. Men think with their "package." If they have the opportunity right in front of them 90% of the time they will take it. But men who are married to celebrity women are surely not thinking straight because Jesse obviously did not think about the consequences of his actions. Like this woman now blabbing about her affair with Jesse. That probably never crossed his mind that she would tell and how stupid is that. So all in all many people go through such pain and heartache over some quickie sex. It's now worth it. If he wanted sex he should have flown to Atlanta and got some from his wife. But no. Jesse will never find a good woman like Sandra again.
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I think that their men cheat on them because their vaginas get skanky sour right before the award. Perhaps a little extra muscle when scrubbing the cooter along with a baking soda douche may alleviate the problem. Otherwise, men are men and part of the animal kingdom.
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You call an 11-month affair 'just before the award'?? Keep your graphics to yourself. Only those of lower intelligence post like this!
MMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM, skanky puddles!
Even the ones who don't win Oscars don't stay married. It's Hollywood.
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To sacrifice a marriage to Sandra Bullock for someone covered from head to toe in ink is ridiculous. Jesse James seriously needs help. A woman or man covered in ink like that is disgusting, it's not pretty or sexy, it's down right ugly!
If I wanted to make love to colored pictures I would make love to the funny papers! Sick!
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If you think they're ugly and grotesque, you should take a closer look at your wife and mother.
Jesse James is a DOG. He is married to America's Favorite genuine woman and he cheats on her for some tattoo-covered jerked-over Amish pervert.
Is the man brain dead?
Sandra, MOVE ON!
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SHE NEW HE WAS A BAD BOY AND HAD A REPUTATION SHE NEW IT WAS A GAMBLE, SHE HAD EYE'S WIDE OPEN SHE'S A BIG GIRL,
HOW DO ME KNOW MAYBE SHE HAD SEXUAL PROBLEMS TOO MOST WOMAN DO?
THEY LOOK GOOD FROM THE OUTSIDE BUT DON'T KNOW HOW TO LET GO AND ENJOY THE MOMENT, THEN AGAIN JESSE MITE BE ONE OF THOSE GUYS THAT CAN'T GET ENOUGH AND IS A DOG, HE'LL HUMP ANY LEG.
YOU KNOW US GUYS ARE DOGS BUT SO ARE WOMAN TOO. WE SHOULD NOT POINT FINGERS CAUSE THEIRS ALWAYS TWO SIDES TO ANY STORY.
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