How Sandra Bullock Found Out About Jesse's Affair

By Rob Shuter Posted Mar 18th 2010 02:19PM

By all accounts, it was a regular Monday morning at Sandra Bullock and Jesse James' Hollywood mansion. That was, until Bullock's publicist called with the devastating news that could potentially change the Oscar-winner's life forever. After the jump, the exclusive story about how the awful news was broken to Sandra.

"In Touch magazine had called Sandra's publicist Monday morning to let her know the magazine was going to print an explosive cover story ... saying her husband was cheating," a source at the magazine told me. "At first, camp Sandra dismissed the story until they understood that the magazine had the alleged mistress, tattoo model Michelle 'Bombshell' McGee, on the record telling all."

By the end of the day Monday, Sandra had moved out of the mansion in California and pulled out of her London event to promote 'The Blind Side,' feeling blindsided herself.

"Sandra had no idea that all of this was going on. Not a clue," a friend of the actress tells me. "Now she is with family hoping for privacy. It's bad enough for any woman to find out that her husband has been cheating on her, but to find out from your publicist and then have it on the cover of a national magazine is heartbreaking."

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Sandra Bullock Snapshots

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Sandra Bullock Snapshots

(FILES) Sandra Bullock, Academy Award winner for Best Actress, and husband Jesse James arrive at the Vanity Fair Dinner And After Party celebrating the 82nd Academy Awards in West Hollywood, California in this March 7, 2010 file photo. Oscar-winning actress Sandra Bullock has cancelled her upcoming trip to the capital for "personal reasons", forcing organisers to call off the London premiere of "The Blind Side". In a statement released by Warner Brothers on March 18, 2010, the 45-year-old actress said she had to pull out of the promotional event due to "unforeseen personal reasons". AFP PHOTO/RICH SCHMITT (Photo credit should read RICH SCHMITT/AFP/Getty Images)

Sandra Bullock Snapshots

*** CORRECTS DAY AND DATE OF PREMIERE *** FILE - Sandra Bullock and Jesse James arrive at the Vanity Fair Oscar party on in this March 7, 2010 file photo taken in West Hollywood, Calif. Sandra Bullock has canceled her appearance at the London premiere of "The Blind Side" scheduled for Tuesday March 23, 2010 almost two weeks after winning a Best Actress Academy Award. In a statement released by Warner Bros UK., the 45-year-old actress says she can't attend the event for "unforeseen personal reasons." (AP Photo/Peter Kramer, File)

Sandra Bullock Snapshots

FILE - Sandra Bullock and Jesse James arrive at the Vanity Fair Oscar party on in this March 7, 2010 file photo taken in West Hollywood, Calif. Sandra Bullock has canceled her appearance at the London premiere of "The Blind Side" Wednesday March 17, 2010 almost two weeks after winning a Best Actress Academy Award. In a statement released by Warner Bros UK., the 45-year-old actress says she can't attend the event for "unforeseen personal reasons." (AP Photo/Peter Kramer, File)

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Thursday 18 March

By Rayman

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You're right, he gave up a way too classy lady for him. That's to show you, Jesse James deserves a skinny low class 24 year old immature girl who likes to draw faces on her body, just like him!

Monday 22 March

By tripD

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Well, just goes to show u that looks can be deceiving! They always appear to b so happy in public.....she seemed so devoted to him at the Oscar speech....that's probably why he was tearing up, because he knew he could not live with hisself after what she just said.....how very sad. Marriages can be saved, but will the trust ever b there again? Probably will never b the same ! And as for a "Oscar Curse", that is just LAME.....

By viviana

I really didn't feel for Jennifer Aniston when she got dumped by Brad Pitt. Maybe because I found her arrogant and frivolous. On the other hand, Sandra Bullock is a classy, intelligent, generous, warm and big-hearted beautiful woman. I hate that she has to go through this public display when she deserves so much better. Shame on Jesse James and may Sandra continue to be the wonderful woman she is because this too shall pass.

By Janet

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I dont believe it. Just another slime hole loking to get attention.

By oralia

sandra is way better off with out him shes too much off a woman for him he is ugly i dont know what she saw in him

By So Sad

This dude is bad news!! His ex-wife is a stripper, and he is messing around with a tatoo'd freak. Sandra, just because you are over 40, doesn't mean you have to be desperate!! Sandra, you have class, and deserve better. I wish Sandra would have known this before the Oscar Awards, then she could have found a classier guy to be with at the Awards Ceremony. This guy is a loser, I hope she doesn't take him back. Ohh, Maybe a TV reality show to find her a match. Hollywood Matchmaker....

By wendy

Sandra Bullock is beautiful and talented she will have the pick of the best! Time to move on and heal. I hope she heals and finds someone to treasure her! Hugs!

By geo

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forgetting about looks for one sec, you can tell that sandra is a 5 in bed and that tattoo chick is a 10 in bed, sometimes a guy needs that crazy sex.

Wow you are such a genius you can tell by a picture? I saw seedy not a 10 in bed for the tattoo chick. Real men dont need tattoes whores.

By meow1755

no way can u tell by just looking at some one how well they preform in bed, the old saying u cant judge a book by its cover is so true, the ones u think is hot i bed are not. and if u ask most men that do cheat, they wil tel u that their cheating had nothing to do with their partners loks or how well they do in bed. u see, if its in u to cheat, u ae gonna no matter who u are with. if what u say is true, than i guess tiger never did find anybody that satified him, that should teach u something about one of the reasons a man cheats.

Friday 19 March

By Steven Keene

My perception is just that; a perception. 1.Sandra Bullock is the HOTTEST woman in Hollywood and I'm not talking about her obvious stunning beauty but rather the radiance of her personality as well as the kind heart of a good soul. I wish both of them good luck and won't dog anyone as I've not read the story other than what's here on this page. I don't put time into following the Hollywood people. But see has made movies in which you can plainly see her shine as well as in photo's even unprepared ones. I also know that there is always a side of someone that is not attractive. That is why true love means accepting the entire person. All the good as well as the bad. Hopefully for all people entering a relationship that piece of advice sticks in their mind's. Total acceptance or it won't work. It really is that simple. Total acceptance = respect.

By JP

If it is true, Jesse you are a JERK..

Sandra, you are my favorite actress of all times. You will go on with dignity and find peace.

I will be praying for you.

By Senses

Jesse, Jesse, Jesse. You just had to get hard-core on yourself. The only hard-core you didn't have was your BEAUTIFUL WIFE and you dog's name CINNABUN.. Get on your motorcycle and ride-off a mountain. Oh and don't forget your leather jacket and take that slither snake with you. What's her name, ain't worth remembering.

By tori

This is all just hear say, unless Sandra or Jesse address this issue as true I feel this piece of trash looking for fame and fortune. This story sounds just like the "Fergie/Josh" story several months ago. When your a celebrity you'll always be an easy mark. She probably left the home for now because the media is swarming all over it and she doesn't want to address this trash. Get a life people you don't know the truth and your already condeming someone.

The news of the troubled marriage was on "The View" 3/18/10 Thursday Morning. Pictures of the Tatoo'd woman, that he cheated with, were shown. The Ladies on "The View" did some male bashing. I believe the story to be true.

By Cheryl

He's 5 years younger than Sandra but looks 20 years older! What a jerk for cheating on her after all she's done for him. She puts him to shame!

By shed18685

First of all we don't know this is true! If it is true I feel sorry for Sandra! No one who goes through this no matter who they are or how famous they are should have to be put through the public humilation that she is being put through, it is painful and humilating enough even if you are a private person and have to go through it can you imagine what it is like for these people having there every little detail of their life put on the front of mags. and newspapers and on the news! If it was happening to you would you want it done that way to you? I think not!!!!

If it is true...and it could be, but I wasn't there...I sure feel for Sandra Bullock and can't imagine what Jessie James was thinking. Or for that matter why so many American men are turning out to be such liars and cheats these days. Didn't their mom's and dad's teach them morals? I made sure to tell both my son and daughtger... If you want to see other people break up or get a divorce before you see anyone else. It's not fair to the other person in your life not to do so. Both have never cheated on their spouses, I am proud to say. They have broken up, moved out and gotten divorces before moving on. It's the right thing to do.

By JULIE

WHY DO CELEBRITIES THINK THAT THEY WON'T GET CAUGHT?

By flwrskmbrly88

I feel terrible for Sandra-I'm sure this was the last thing she expected to find out especially after she did so well in her film The Blind Side. That being said she should've realized what she was getting herself into by marrying a guy who has a past relationship with a porn star. It's sad that Sandra stood by him through his court battle with his ex over their daughter. Sandra is a classy, talented actress who could do SO much better than Jessy. His past speaks for itself. She should've been able to go & make her movie without having this low-life cheat on her while she was away. I hope she doesn't consider taking this jerk back because he doesn't deserve her. I saw the picture of the tramp he cheated with-she's a totally tastless ho with no class. She knew Jessy was married & she could care less. I hope it was worth it to Jessy to destroy a wonderful marriage. Sandra needs to get as far away from this low-life as possible & go on her life & carrer. Jessy does not deserve her-she can do sooooo much better. Best of luck to you Sandra, you deserve the best, not some loser who can't stay faithful while you're away shooting a film. Jessy & this tramp deserve each other & I gaurantee he will cheat on the next woman he's involved with. Men like that don't change. What a loser. Let's just hope there is a pre-nump. Take care Sandra-in time your wounds will heal & as for Jessy-hope he falls off the face of the earth, he had an incredible woman & he destroyed what they had. Hope his carrer goes down the toilet along with his reputation. He's Pathetic Plain & Simple.

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