Mo'Nique to Sandra Bullock: 'Call Me, Baby'

By PopEater Staff Posted Mar 22nd 2010 02:45PM

Mo'Nique took some time to send her love and support to fellow Oscar winner Sandra Bullock, as reports are flying about her husband Jesse James' affair with Michelle McGee.

"To my sweet sister Sandra, my prayers are with you," Mo'Nique said to ET. "My prayers are also with your husband, baby. That is between the two of you and I hope ya'll make it work."

Mo'Nique, who is in an open marriage with husband Sidney Hicks, stressed that the alleged affair is no one's business but their own. "It's hard but that's their business. Let them go through their situation," she said. "I don't wish her nothing but happiness, along with her husband," she continued. "I don't want to see any marriages dissolve or break up."

"Sandra, if you need me sugar, call me baby," Mo'Nique added.

Of her own relationship, Mo'Nique has said that while she has never done it, her husband is allowed to stray outside their marriage. "That's not a deal-breaker," she said. "That's not something that would make us say, 'Pack your things and let's end the marriage.'"

Even multiple times wouldn't be a "dealbreaker" for the 'Precious' star. "What if it's 20 times? So what?" she said. "We've been best friends for over 25 years, and we truly know who we are. Oftentimes, people get into marriages and they don't know who they're laying next to. I'm very comfortable and secure with my husband."

Tags: jesse james, Michelle mcgee, monique, sandra bullock

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Monday 22 March

By Kimberly

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Sandra... Do NOT CALL HER!!!! She is an idiot for thinking it is "okay" for her husband to cheat on her. How gross!! Can you imagine all the STDs she had from him!! I have absolutely NO respect for any woman who thinks it is okay to violate the sanctity of marriage. Mo'Nique, you are gross and an embarrassment to women the world over.

By John John

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Yeah, I agree, don't call that loom!

By pambeeslyhalpert

Seriously if you allow your husband to cheat on you, you are a dumbass!

By Robyn

I think Monique uses the wrong phrase when she says she's in an "open marriage." She doesn't think it's ok for her husband to cheat. She is just being honest and saying that if it happened it wouldn't be the end of the marriage. When she says "open," I think she meant that they are open to talk about whatever they are truly feeling. Even if that means that one is having feelings for someone else.

Tuesday 23 March

By Pam

I agree. She said it's not a deal breaker. Quite frankly, I feel the same way about my husband. If he cheated on me, I would not want our marriage to end over it, and it wouldn't. That doesn't mean I want him out screwing around. But if it happened I would not leave my husband over it.

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I think a lot of us say that we have "deal-breakers" in our relationship. But when something like this happens, the heart may tell you something else. We need to allow ourselves permission to forgive each other and to forgive ourselves for still wanting to be with the one who hurt us.
It ain't over, till it's over.

By rsauslito

I agree that I don't think Monique is really talking "open marriage" in terms of both partners being with other ppl on a regular basis. I think she is trying to take a proactive approach to what she may consider to be a reality, and that is that her man will or maybe will at some point be with other women. She seems to be saying that she knows it may or has happened and its not worth losing the relationship with her friend/husband of 25 years over a one nighter with someone that doesn't mean crap to the guy. Unorthodox, yes but I think I can understand what she is saying anyway. Plus, its their business and if thats how they roll, then thats how they roll. Not really hurting anyone else unless there is dishonesty involved, which it would appear that Monique is trying to avoid....

By Lori

She gave her husband her blessing to go out and cheat, you think there is a man out there if you told him it wouldn't end our marriage that he wouldn't go do it? You are as much of an idiot as she is.

By reality

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i agree,this dumb black bimbo,shoild shut her pie hole,thease celebritys should smarten up ,just once,sandra,leave the idiot for good,we all make mistakes,good luck to you

Wednesday 24 March

By cstewart

Learn how to spell! Please!

Thursday 25 March

By Lady

Soo that's where u came from.....lmaoo

Why does she have to be a dumb BLACK bimbo and not just a bimbo.... Your are so ignorant.

By moco420

Reality, before you go around saying hurtful things about people, maybe you should learn to spell. Just more proof that the most hateful people are the most uneducated.

By shantau grube

the racist cmomments are gross why is this such a big deal, bcuz the media who cares that tiger woods cheated on his wife with 50 women? who cares that my girl monique believes that if her man cheats on her its is not a deal breaker? who cares if jesse likes chicks a little more on the edgy side? NOT ME!!!!!! who care about the haiti relief and the flood victims? Nobody!!! who really cares about what goes on in the private lives of these people, sandra i wish you all the best and i know you are probably hurt but embrassed more than anything dont be, you are human. The best advise I can give you is to do what you feel in your heart is right, if you want to forgive jesse and move on more power to you,if you want to forgive him and work it out more power to you. however whatever you choose to do you must forgive and let go i did'nt say forget, no, no not forget just forgive. if you want to stay with your husband stay don't leave because of what you think people might say, who cares you are not sleeping with the world, and only you know what you can handle , goodluck and blessings sweetheart.

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By Jerry stevenson

Sad day in Texas. Glad to see u stand strong in these bad times. . Bless u and family.

By LIZ

ICE your the dumb of the dumbeset person you should be ashame of yourself from saying that if u dont like Monique just say it but dont invlove african had sex with Gorilla, if u had sex with Gorilla juzt admit to it u should be SLAP on the face for saying the shame on you.

By addissondewitt

Uh helloooo. The fact that you have to reach out to Bullock via the press means you DON'T have her number. If she wanted you to have it, she'd have given it to you on Oscar night. Monique you were a cute Nicki Parker, but you're a pathetic A-List Wannabe! I take umbrage at your overuse of the word "Baby" as if you hadn't gotten onstage that night and shunned both the Academy that bequeathed you, and your fellow nominees for Supporting Actress with your "Kiss My Ass" speech!

Listen uh.."Baby". Hopefully you don't think you were just inducted into the Cool Kids group by winning an Oscar trophy. I'm afraid an Oscar just doesn't mean as much as it used to. Savor what it meant. Key word being MEANT! Your acceptance speech was your chance to dazzle the A Listers. Instead you pissed all over it. I wouldn't hold my breath waiting for Sandra or ANY of the people that wouldn't call you back before the Precious thing happened.

HEYYYYYY!!!!

By vasquezkim

My heart does out to you Sandra.Isn't just like a man to rain on your time to shine. I fell so bad for you and for the children. Don't go back with him Sandra, once a cheater always a cheater. You are a wonderful,good hearted soul and desire the best. God bless you. And that thing he cheated with, shame on him,you are beautiful inside and out, she is just down right nasty.

Friday 26 March

By Joann

If you're having an open marriage then why get married at all! If my husband cheated once and made a mistake okay it happens but 20 times. There has to be something wrong psychologically. Someone who can cheat like that only shows what a selfish and "all about me" person he/she must be!

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