New details are emerging in the seemingly endless tale of Jesse James' infidelity -- this time straight from the mouth of his ex-wife. Janine Lindemulder sat down with In Touch for a candid conversation on his past struggles with monogamy.
"He's a chronic cheater," Lindemulder, who filed papers to regain custody of her daughter with James after the scandal broke, alleges exclusively to In Touch.
"I feel sorry for Sandra because she was so in love with Jesse that she was blind and gullible. She once said, 'I finally have a man who has my back.' And all I could think was, 'No. You have this man who does it behind your back.'"
But it doesn't end there. In addition to claiming James solicited her for sex while he was dating Bullock, Lindemulder drops a bombshell as sordid as the tattooed mistress caught in the middle, claiming that just two weeks after marrying Bullock, James pleaded with his ex-wife to see him, reportedly saying, "I think I made a huge mistake."
There has been no statement by Bullock, who has not been seen in public since she reportedly moved out of the home she shared with James after allegations concerning his infidelity hit the tabloids.
Actress Sandra Bullock (R) and Jesse James attend the 16th Annual Screen Actors Guild Awards at The Shrine Auditorium on January 23, 2010 in Los Angeles, California. 16th Annual Screen Actors Guild Awards - Arrivals The Shrine Auditorium Los Angeles, CA United States January 23, 2010 Photo by Jeffrey Mayer/WireImage.com To license this image (17134385), contact WireImage.com
yeah, my co-worker & i talked about that yesterday. & he apologized for the situation, saying that some of the allegations were untrue. It could just be a situation where they were alone together & it's a classic case of he said/she said. Maybe not, but it is a possibility....
Jesse got sole custody of their child because she was a heavy drug user and went to prison. I don't see what Sandra saw in him but none of us really knows what goes on behind closed doors. She's such a classy lady, my heart goes out to her. I know that she's hurting, and nothing can stop that.
She has a HUGE reason to hate him! He just got sole custody of their daughter. Her motives scream BS. I'd bet retaliating against him through the media is feeling real good about now.
I agree with JLS. There seems to be some sour grapes here. Janine is highly pissed at Jesse and would probably do anything to screw (not literally) him.
What a load of crap you just doled out!! You think men only cheat on their wives if they are horrible to live with at home?? Ha! There are 2 kinds of women as far as men are concerned...1 you marry and one you play with....one has nothing to do with the other in a man's mind!! She could be St Mary...perfect homemaker, great in bed (nympho), beautiful, intelligent, fun, rich and a man will STILL cheat!! Why? Cuz a stiff one has no conscience and there are sooo many women willing to do married men!
Looking at James's previous relationships it seems as if he chose women he could happily cheat on; the women seemed devoid of any self esteem and perhaps considered James a good catch! Ms. Bullock is worth so much more than this sleaze could truly offer; betrayal is one of the most dire things that can happen to anyone. The man is a roue above all else; mercifully there must be some good in him and Ms. Bullock has to be thankful she found that!
All we really know about their relationship is what we read in the tabloids. What Sandra Bullock is like off the screen we have not a clue except that she has not been very successful in any of her previous relationships and that she was way past her prime before she decided to marry the twice divorced ex of a popular porn star. These facts alone says alot about her character and decision making ability. Maybe if she would have gotten a few tattoos she would have kept his interest as his previous wife and mistress are covered in them.
This is really a good example of someone marrying outside of their spear of influence, their morals and character. He definately is someone not to be trusted! Sandra used poor judgement when she married a guy who has totoos and to top that off he was married to a drug adict and PORN STAR? Go figure! What would you expect to be the norm of a man who probably was a recovering drug adict himself. You can never change a person and this is a good example of that! He has huge character flaws and bad moraljudegement. I feel sorry Sandra didn't see the whole picture. If you want to see what the future looks like look at the past! I love Sandra
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Has anyone even thought that this so called mistress was paid by Jesse's ex to cause this scandal to get custody of her daughter back?
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ahh NOO!!!since Jesse James already apologized for it..meaning he DID cheat
I actually feel sorry for Sandra Bullock. Even more so for the kid.
yeah, my co-worker & i talked about that yesterday. & he apologized for the situation, saying that some of the allegations were untrue. It could just be a situation where they were alone together & it's a classic case of he said/she said. Maybe not, but it is a possibility....
It MUST be for the money. I wouldn't DO him. I don't find ANYTHING about him remotely attractive.
Now that is a thought. A real good one. I thought that if he was cheating that his ex would have found out doing the custody trial and use it.
Jesse got sole custody of their child because she was a heavy drug user and went to prison. I don't see what Sandra saw in him but none of us really knows what goes on behind closed doors. She's such a classy lady, my heart goes out to her. I know that she's hurting, and nothing can stop that.
Run Sandra Run!!! This is not something that can be fixed...
She has a HUGE reason to hate him! He just got sole custody of their daughter. Her motives scream BS. I'd bet retaliating against him through the media is feeling real good about now.
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I agree with JLS. There seems to be some sour grapes here. Janine is highly pissed at Jesse and would probably do anything to screw (not literally) him.
I think it's true. These women that seem so perfect are probably horrible to live with...ergo, their men cheat.
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What a load of crap you just doled out!! You think men only cheat on their wives if they are horrible to live with at home?? Ha! There are 2 kinds of women as far as men are concerned...1 you marry and one you play with....one has nothing to do with the other in a man's mind!! She could be St Mary...perfect homemaker, great in bed (nympho), beautiful, intelligent, fun, rich and a man will STILL cheat!! Why? Cuz a stiff one has no conscience and there are sooo many women willing to do married men!
Obviously you don't have to worry about your husband cheating, then.
that is just stupid
Looking at James's previous relationships it seems as if he chose women he could happily cheat on; the women seemed devoid of any self esteem and perhaps considered James a good catch! Ms. Bullock is worth so much more than this sleaze could truly offer; betrayal is one of the most dire things that can happen to anyone. The man is a roue above all else; mercifully there must be some good in him and Ms. Bullock has to be thankful she found that!
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All we really know about their relationship is what we read in the tabloids. What Sandra Bullock is like off the screen we have not a clue except that she has not been very successful in any of her previous relationships and that she was way past her prime before she decided to marry the twice divorced ex of a popular porn star. These facts alone says alot about her character and decision making ability. Maybe if she would have gotten a few tattoos she would have kept his interest as his previous wife and mistress are covered in them.
This is really a good example of someone marrying outside of their spear of influence, their morals and character. He definately is someone not to be trusted! Sandra used poor judgement when she married a guy who has totoos and to top that off he was married to a drug adict and PORN STAR? Go figure! What would you expect to be the norm of a man who probably was a recovering drug adict himself. You can never change a person and this is a good example of that! He has huge character flaws and bad moraljudegement. I feel sorry Sandra didn't see the whole picture. If you want to see what the future looks like look at the past! I love Sandra
she dont need him anyway she needs a real man like me i love her
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SAM
Sorry about your luck.
Sam's my friend.