Sandra Bullock Having Second Thoughts About Divorce

By Rob Shuter Posted Apr 1st 2010 02:01AM

While Jesse James seeks treatment in rehab, Sandra Bullock is reconsidering her divorce options and believes she can save their marriage, a friend of the star tells me. Although more women keep crawling out of the woodwork, Sandra wants to stick by her man. Details about how she plans to move forward, plus why Gerald Butler is back to '300' hunk shape ... after the jump!

Sandra and Jesse's Marriage Just Needs a Tune-Up

Now that Jesse James has checked himself into rehab and finally admitted he needs to get help, sources are telling me that Sandra is having second thoughts about moving forward with her divorce.

"Sandra and Jesse have been speaking a lot, and now that he is finally taking responsibility and taking positive action, Sandra is thinking about giving him a second chance," a friend of the actress tells me. "Jesse is in really bad shape and she's not the sort of girl to kick a dog when he's down. At the very least, you can expect Sandra to put the divorce on hold until after he gets treatment."

And before you go judging Sandra's decision, remember no one really knows what goes on in another person's marriage -- and the same goes for Elin Nordegren, the wife of Tiger Woods. As Sandra's friend tells me, "a marriage is sacred and something worth trying to save."

Gerard Butler Losing Weight ... for Jennifer Aniston?

Although Jennifer Aniston and Gerald Butler have both denied romance rumors, a source tells me things are really heating up between the pair.

"How could they resist each other when visiting Paris, the city of love," an insider tells me. "They have been spending so much time together in foreign cities promoting 'The Bounty Hunter' that it was inevitable that they would get very close."

However, time will tell if the new couple keeps on going once they return home to Los Angeles.

Luckily for us, the slighty chubby Gerard, while trying to impress Jen, has been transformed back into the '300' hunk. Yes, please!

Help Ugly Betty Build a School

'Ugly Betty' may have been canceled, but America Ferrera (sans sweater vests and mismatched skirts) is keeping busy with charity work. On April 12, she'll be hosting an art auction in New York with all the proceeds going to a school she's building in Mali with Save the Children.

Mali is one of the poorest countries in the world with nearly 800,000 children unable to attend school and get a good education.

America says she's thrilled and excited to be working with Save the Children and naturally is hoping that she raises enough money to build that school. Want to help America do a good deed? You can buy a ticket or donate at http://bettysavesthechildren.eventbrite.com/

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Thursday 01 April

By Nancy

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WHAT???????

Sandra, being alone is wonderful. Jesse is SLIME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

By ettucat

There are some parts of the male body that cannot be retrained. Give it up Sandra, he'll do you wrong again.

By Phyllis

im sorry for Sandra, she has no respect for herself. she picked a bum, and thats what he will always be. as soon as things quiet down, he will cheat again and again. if she is lucky, he wont give her a veneral desease.she thinks if she sat home and played wifey, he wouldnt have cheated,he will cheat, no matter what. now we know why 2 wives, kicked him out.

By chris

"re hab for sex addicts"", Biggest bullsh** term in modern english. Anyone who gets caught cheating is a sex addict.. Great its a "sickness" not a moral weakness.... Can rapists claim they are sex addicts and not be prosecuted? Stop making excuses for self centered egotists who believe they are doing nothing wrong.

Friday 02 April

By dave

TO(CHRIS)yes a sex addict is like a drug addict.i dont no if you have a men or not.but if you do he is trying to get you in bed all the time.all men our sex addict.we dont care if its that time of the month we want you.i am being real as i can.most men dont go out on there women i bet you got something to say about that too.god gave men a tool big or little.all we have to do is kiss and hold you.that thing gets hard an wont go down till we get what we need.sorry.and a women has the same feeling as a men we all want to be wanted.women get wet.sometimes they want more they we can give.women find ways to get off.your no diff then a men.god put you here for a men.

By Barbara

Isn't that what a wife beater says? I'm sorry? I'll never do it again? And the new status for the stars going to rehab for sex. Yeah people make mistakes and deserve second chances and I so believe Sandra you made a BIG MISTAKE so you deserve a second chance alright so let him go to rehab and get help but get the hell out of there! It's like a bandaid honey go slowing it hurts more rip it off FAST!

By Charlie

I hope that it works outs. Marriage is sacred and is worth saving. This way Sandra can say that she did try. I think that everyone deserves a second chance. Love should be unconditional...we are all human. If it happens again, then Sandra can say Good-Bye.

Sunday 04 April

I guess you can call Jesse The White Tiger!!!! Sandra Is a good person, she does deserve better than Jesse, But she has to work that out herself, I know when you really Love someone its hard to let go.And she does love Jesse, but like all men they dont think with the right head!

By LINDA

I DOUBT REHAB HELPS THESE MEN. THIS IS JUST A EASY WAY OUT FOR THEM ONCE THEY ARE CAUGHT. WAKE UP SANDRA...............YOU CAN DO BETTER!

By Lauri

Cheating is in Jessie's DNA. He may try to change but eventually he will do it again. Sandra deserves so much better than this lo-life biker. She must demand respect and be strong. Otherwise she is simply giving him permission to treat her badly.

By Rookie

If it's either a woman or a man. Once a cheater , always a cheater. Love when they have to go into rehab for that. Just like in sports, once a steroid user, always a steroid user. Personally, I think she is a fool to give it another chance. How long will it be , before we hear of the next person he was with ?

By 2day

Rehab is for quitters !

By l

WHAT???!! OMG, I would be very disappointed in Sandra if she returned to that lying cheating ho. Jesse is just like TIger Woods- a serial cheater who exposed himself and Sandra to all kinds of diseases because he can NOT be faithful and sleeps with skanky tattooed strippers and porn stars. Yuck. Sandra, you deserve SO much better. The only reason Jesse is in "rehab" (snicker) is because he got CAUGHT. Otherwise he would still be ho-ing around with his usual multitude of porn stars and strippers.

By Rob

She travels constantly doing movies so how could she keep an eye on the cheater? I love Sandra but she sure is poor judgment of character in men. Jesse is, and always was, a bad boy. Dump him and get on with your life!

By Dee McMillan

Who knows what is the truth? It appears all kinds of creatures are crawling out from the rocks to add to the story. If half of it is true, it's scary. I hope she sees a doctor to make she doesn't have any kind of a disease.
I was married once to a cheater, and I didn't find out until the end of our marriage it had been going on almost from the start of our marriage.
Oh and by the way, there is no such thing as sex addiction,
it is James'failure to have self control.

By caramelosdos

Sandra Bullock had a lot to say about someone else's marriage,
that of Tiger Woods and his wife. Sandra said, had it been
her husband, she would have bashed in his head with a baseball
bat! Well, where is Sandra's baseball bat? She is pathetic, and
a big fool. She has allowed herself to be used and abused by
this pig, and she thinks this marriage can be saved? I no longer
have an respect for this woman. She is obviously in need of some
serious help to try and understand why she is allowing herself
to be treated like dirt, yet thinks she can continue in this
marriage. She lacks self respect and lacks the courage that every
woman needs to be treated decently. How disgusting she is.

By Linda

Once a dog always a dog! (But enough about Cinnabun). I sooo hope this strange match-up can make up.

By Sal

YOU HAVE GOT TO BE KIDDING. SANDRA, MOVE ON WITHOUT THE S.O.B.

By MOTHER PLUCKER

YES MARRIAGE IS VERY SACRED. BUT TAKE THE BLINDERS OFF. IT IS KNOWN FACT THAT "ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER". REHAB ONLY HELPS SOMEONE THAT WANTS HELP, NOT JUST BECAUSE YOU GOT BUSTED!

By judyg

if bullock stays with this guy who likes to act like a nazi, i will never watch any of her movies again. it says something about her if she stays with him. and i don't like what it says.

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