The right question to ask is what is wrong with these women that makes a man with them want to cheat...Maybe they are beautiful on the outside but ugly on the inside....maybe they treat their men like dirt and they go else where to get the affection they aren't receiving at home...just a thought

Like my dad always said, somewhere there's a guy that couldn't put up with her crap. Nobody knows what goes on in their private lives. Not saying cheating is right, but sometimes the other person is just intolerable. Yes, they should just get a divorce, but sometimes people stay too long trying to hold a family together. Don't ask me how I know this.

@ Belladonna: When last we checked it still took 2 people to have an affair.. Im sure after 5 years of his cheating the "other" woman knew he was married. So what kind of WOMAN has an affair with a MARRIED man? You see there are 2 sides to every coin..Oh and YOUR name? Belladona is that something self proclaimed? Talking about egos LOL...

Well.... I agree. She could have done sooo much better. But, when you select trash. You need to look at yourself in the mirror and say what was I thinking and why did I go that route... hmmm

Wth does "looks" have to do with it!? Personally, I think she's gorgeous. That said, I also know from experience that those are usually the most egotistical, vindictive, and selfish type of female! Well, majorly. Not stating that all pretty women are. I'm also not trying to justify her husbands actions. But you have to see BOTH angles, before you make an uneducated judgement.

Garcelle may LOOK beaufitul, but can be a horrible person inside. Just follow the methods she's chosen here! It takes a poretty dark mind to go to such lenghts at revenge. revenge is dark in itself! Two wrongs NEVER make a right.

Cheating idiot (I would've just seeked counseling, or left the chick), scandolous female. Typical story. That little guy just can't handle her. Simple.

Most men who cheat do so for reasons other than their wife's beauty, personality, and love.

Most cheaters (male or female) do so for the same reason that dogs lick their own, um, parts: because they can.

The spouse doesn't have much to do with it, no matter what the cheater tells their new paramour.

That's awesome that she struck back at her worthless husband - the cheating creep deserved that.

A man that cheats on his wife and kids is pure garbage, period.

Why does she have to be mature? Why does she have to go into hiding like Sandra Bullock? She was the one cheated on, lied to and betrayed but she is the one who is suppose to rise above it all and act like it doesn't matter that her husband of 9 years gave no thought what so ever to their marriage, their kids or their family. Jesse James and Tiger Woods mistresses are everywhere they possibly can yaking to anyone that will listen about their affairs and the wives are just standing there getting run over. Finally one said "No". I'm not a doormat, I won't be quiet and I will not be treated this way. Granted I'm sure she did it out of immediate anger but at least she did something. Elin and Sandra need to make an appearance or say something so everyone will stop dumping pity on them. They already feel stupid enough, how does pity from total strangers make it better?

Her thought process is what you decide to question when a married man decided to break his vow of "til death do us part". Yeah that sounds like a man who feels there is justification in why a man does what he does. As another poster wrote, she must not have been "giving him something" that is why he must have done what he did. Are all of you mad! To always blame the one scorned rather than accepting the blame for being a scoundrel is a typical...

This is mostly for Cat. Someone also said we do not know what goes on behind closed doors. he may be the jerk you think he ir or maybe, just maybe, he lives with a terror. Women can dish out mental abuse too...

Are you people serious? When a man cheats it is his fault. PERIOD. If your that unhappy then leave or get divorced. Be a man about it ....Don't humiliate your wife and take all her confidence and self esteem because your not man enough to walk out. You think the answer to everything id to put it in someone else if your not happy? Grow the hell up relationships are hard vows are hard and marriage is hard work. If your not up to doing the woek then get out and let her find someone who is don't let her waste her life with you when you have already moved on in every way but geography. Take her best years let her raise your children and then leave her because you've been unhappy for years? It takes a bigger man to walk away from a family and find someone else than it does to lie and cheat and decieve everyone and steal their life from them. Men are such selfish jerks..I'm so sick of all of them.

I agree....poor taste on her side...I would just ask for a divorce.

There is no 'thought process'....my god, people forget what really happens inside of you when you find out. As though losing some amount of great and perfect judgment when you find out, is so terrible or unusual. It's not.

Well, we do like Red Hot Tamales !!!

Maybe that is what that particular thin "nice looking" man wants. Not all of them are attracted to thin women. So because a woman is fat, is she considered to be unattractive? Or should she not be able to pull in a decent looking man? Maybe not in your eyes, but perhaps in the man that she is with she is beautiful. Remember, to each his or her own.