Ed O'Neill Finds 'Modern Family' Gay Kiss Controversy 'Half Amusing, Half Annoying'

Ed O'Neill is no stranger to comedy controversy. Twenty years ago, critics assailed his show 'Married... With Children' for risqué content that supposedly went too far. Now, his hit show 'Modern Family' is the target of criticism that it doesn't go far enough.
The ABC sitcom's critics have noted that its gay couple, Mitchell (Jesse Tyler Ferguson) and Cameron (Eric Stonestreet), has not been shown kissing (or engaging in much public display of affection, for that matter), even though the program hasn't been shy about showing liplocks between Mitchell's sister, Claire (Julie Bowen), and her husband, Phil (Ty Burrell). ABC has said the reticence is Mitchell's, not the network's, and that his squeamishness over PDA will be addressed in a future episode. That hasn't mollified the
more than 12,000 Facebook petitioners (so far) who are demanding a Mitchell-Cameron kiss.
O'Neill, who plays Mitchell and Claire's father, Jay, addressed the controversy in an interview with
PopEater. Calling from his Los Angeles home, he said he finds the complaint "half amusing, half annoying." He noted that we haven't seen Jay and his sexy young wife, Gloria (
Sofia Vergara) kiss either. And, after 20 years of appearances in controversial comedies, O'Neill said that he sees such protests as just another form of show business, not to be taken seriously.
What do you think of the protests over Cameron and Mitchell's muted displays of affection?
Oh, that's so stupid. Who cares? When I hear that, it's half amusing, half annoying. First of all, they're the most conservative family of the three. Mitchell is a lawyer, and Cameron is a stay-at-home mom with a baby.
It's much, much better to allow people to use their imaginations when they want to, in that regard. Otherwise, it turns into a sort of pornography. If people want to be titillated or shocked or, "Oh, wow, they're actually kissing," I mean, who cares? The format is, they live together. We assume they have sex. I don't think we need to see it beginning or ending. Who cares? To me, it's boring. Gloria and I haven't done any making out in the first 24 shows.
Would you like to have Jay make out with Gloria?
No. I think it's boring. When people start to make out or kiss or French kiss or caress in a sexual manner, the story stops. Where do you go with that? It's like, "Okay, now, let's see... five seconds, ten seconds, 15 seconds, gee, they're still making out, my goodness, they're actually kissing." Who cares? The story stops.
Do you find any irony in the notion that, 20 years ago, 'Married... With Children' was criticized for going too far, and now 'Modern Family' is criticized for not going far enough?
I couldn't care less. [Laughs.] It's part of the business. The fact is, the critics have a job to do. They're also in show business. We understand that. They have to sell their fish some way, so they have to keep inventing things to write about. So they're going to come up with things that are titillating to read about. From an actor's standpoint, we don't even think about things like that. We have enough to do just to get the show done. That's all I ever think about. Otherwise, you're thinking about things you have no control over and they're just in the way of what you really need to concern yourself about.
Read more from O'Neill's discussion of 'Modern Family' and his where-are-they-now update on the 'Married... With Children' cast in a post on TV Squad. O'Neill also talks about his new movie, 'Delicious Peace Grows in a Ugandan Coffee Bean,' at Moviefone.
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Maybe not maybe so but they try to cram it down are throat.Two men kissing is gross,and the longer there around you the more gay they get.And they act like your stupid if you dont want to be shacked up with a flameing queer And they get crushes.
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Sounds like you have lots of issues about your own sexuality.
I want to make out with Gloria !
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We all love the show....nobody is upset that there is a gay couple on it...but we don't need to see the act. Leave well enough alone. Why do people need to make problems where there are none???
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call it what you will - two same sex people kissing - nothing new - may enhance the story a bit - two girls kissing - hot love to see it - two guys kissing mega gross - you want to call that homophobia - go ahead - dont matter - fact is i am attracted to women - so whats better than one woman - two - not be attracted to men does not make me nervous about anything - or supressing some urge - it just means - i am not interested in seeing two men do pretty much anything - i am so tired of gay people shoving their views down our throuts and when we say we dont like it they call it homophobia - we dont have days where we run around telling people we are straight - so why do you need to run around say - hey look at me i am gay - do what you want - where you want - but people have the right to be digsusted at what they find digusting and like i said - two guys kissing - gross - two girls hot
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so what you are saying - is you are living a lie - you want to leave your husband - find a chick and have gay sex with her - your a lesbian - but then dont call yourself a right leaning convervative - call it what you are a liberal - maybe michelle obama will make out with you
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a kiss is just a kiss!!!!
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This is crazy! Enough with the homosexual displays of affection. No NOT everyone enjoys seeing this and it's been taken to far even on other shows like Brothers & Sisters and Grey's Anatomy.....I don't care to see a man and woman make out for a long time, but thats fine.
Two men or two women....enough already! Get over the protesting and move on.
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A phobia is an unnatural fear not a dislike of something. I don't like papaya,but I'm not a papayaphobic,because I don't panic when I see one. These made up psychobabble terms ARE causing me to lose patience with those who use them.
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Ed O'Neill is not only one of the best actors of his generation, he's also the nicest man in show business, also one of the smartest, and one of the most generous guys on the set toward other cast members and the crew.
As usual, Ed hits this one right on target, and he's just trying to tell us the simple truth. The critics are in show business, too. The guys will kiss when it's good for the show -- no sooner, no later.
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why do the straights always use the terms "cram it down our throats," "shove it down our throats," "ram it down our throats."
Cracks me up! Wishful thinking maybe, lol!
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My family stopped watching tv almost 25 years ago now because of its lewdness and stupidity. After learning about this freak of a show, I'm glad we did.
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What is freaky is that you would judge something you haven't seen. Now go back to having sex with your brother.
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Get out your Yellow Pages and under PSYCHIATRIC CARE, call every number pronto!
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