Vienna Says 'Bachelor' Jake Wouldn't Touch Her

By Rob Shuter Posted Jun 22nd 2010 02:57PM

Exclusive: As the reality-loving world continues to try making sense of the sudden split between Jake Pavelka and Vienna Girardi, Star Magazine is setting the record straight on what caused the 'Bachelor' lovebirds to break up, and PopEater has it exclusively. The best part is, all of the info comes straight from Vienna's mouth. After the jump, the exclusive details behind the sad breakup.

Vienna tells Star that she and Jake had an intense physical attraction at first, but that they "haven't been intimate in months now."

The 24-year-old Girardi goes on to further slam Pavelka's bedroom prowess, saying "at first his excuse was that he was fasting. The second excuse was that he didn't feel like it. And the third excuse was that he said that he felt that I wouldn't understand that he wants to wait until marriage, even though I told him I'd support him."

Girardi says the excuses continued, eventually ending with Pavelka telling her that she pushes him away by fighting with him all of the time.

In fact, according to Girardi, the only time that Pavelka would show any sort of physical emotion or attention to her was when they were "on a red carpet or if cameras are there ... Besides that, I have to ask for a kiss."

The July 15 issue also has more detail on other reasons their romance faded, including what Girardi calls an abusive relationship ... and what she's planning on doing with the $50,000 engagement ring that Pavelka gave her.

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Wednesday 23 June

By deb

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if he is gay .. what would Ali want with him anyway... she is on to greener pastures. LOL

Tuesday 22 June

By Jonathan

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Well it because he is gay and thats OK. I hope one day he finally relizes it and decides to be happy. I would know I did.

By lin

I thought Jake was gay from the get go and now that seems to be confirmed by his own ex-fiance. He claims to be unlucky in love, however the truth is that hes not even attracted to women!

By Sue

Gay..I feel that is the case.

By Dorothy

What article did you read lin? I didn't read that his ex said he was gay. I only read that he wouldn't touch her. Heck, I don't blame him....I wouldn't want to touch her either and would be making up excuse after excuse to get out of it. I take that back, I wouldn't have been dumb enough to have gotten involved with her in the first place. She would have been the first to go. And you think it is the truth he is gay because of it? You have got to be kidding me. When I had been married, prior to my divorce, I wouldn't let my husband touch me, but it certainly wasn't because I was gay. You are an idiot for your reasoning.

By Jeff Graham

Another case of opposites attract, but don't last . I never seen a guy say all the right things, sound so sincere, and talk a good game, only to end up picking someone totally different than what he was preaching. He was saying one thing, and then he goes and picks Vienna. Your better off being true to yourself, so you make the right decisions in life , and not get so many viewers mad at you in the process.

By jm

I am not so sure he is gay BUT he did make a bad choice with this girl,I said this from the start. First she needs a crude awakening,YOU ARE NOT ALL THAT girl!!!! Second she needs to get away from her DADDY and realize a man wants to have a wife NOT a "daddys girl" SRY wrong grl for that guy!!!!

By me

I don't pay any attention this Bachelor/Bachelorette garbage, but I recall hearing on the View that this Jake guy picked a woman he was physically attracted to but had no emotional chemistry and gave up a woman he had emotional chemistry with but was not physically attracted to. And the consensus was that you can't build a marriage - or any relationship - solely on sex and it would fizzle out eventually. Apparently, the ladies of the View aren't just annoying, they are actually right sometimes. Let this be a lesson to all of you looking for "love". It's more than just sex.

Oh, and Jake? Gay as Christmas.

By Maria

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I totally agree.

By Hi, Sudie!

If he were any gayer, he'd be Elton John's fanny pack.

By Linda

Could he be in love with the girl that he danced with on Dancing with the Stars. He looked like he really liked her. And Vienna looked very upset how close they looked. Just a thought!

By emma

I thought so too. There seemed to be a real attraction there and Vienna seemed to be very jealous as she sat in the stands.

but if he is gay.... he isnt in to any girl.....

By Kay

Gee, what a surprise! Its just another reality show where all the players are losers and "How much do they get paid?" Lets face it America, these programs are all rigged and the producers know before they even begin to tape who will be the winner! Are you people that stupid that you still watch this type of garbage?

By Brittany

Based on the way he treated Chelsie while he was on DWTS, I'm not surprised. He was a jerk to her, too.

By damewolf

just about anyone could fall in love with Chelsea Hightower. Gay or not!

By Becky

I know a GAY boy when I see one, and Jake is as GAY as a
3-Dollar bill!

By Nico Toscani

Do you mean "queer" as a three dollar bill? Nice try though...

By Frances

I can't believe she didn't know he was gay?!?

By scooby8912

That thing probably smells like roadkill.....