'Tortured' Jesse James Vows to Win Back Sandra

By Rob Shuter Posted Jun 30th 2010 09:50AM

Their divorce was lightning fast, but don't think for a second that Jesse James is just going to vanish from Sandra Bullock's sight. In fact, she may be seeing even more of him now that he's made it clear he'll two-step his way to Texas to be near her and baby Louis. A friend of Jesse's tells me he's a "tortured man" and is determined to win her back. Good luck with that, big guy! More on Jesse and Sandra, plus a glimpse at 'Bachelor' Jake's new love, after the jump!

Jesse James Wants to Open Another Chapter With His Ex

The ink on Sandra Bullock and Jesse James' divorce papers is dry, but that doesn't mean she has seen the last of her ex-husband.

Jesse and Sandra

"Jesse is going to win Sandra back if it's the last thing he does," a friend of Jesse tells me. "His life can never be complete until Sandy is once again his wife. Yes, he messed up badly, but they say love is better the second time around, and Jesse still believes Sandra and he will have another chapter."

It's true that Jesse is moving from Los Angeles to Sandra's hometown of Austin, Texas. He has said that he wants to be close to Sandra so that his children, especially 6-year-old daughter Sunny, can still see Sandy. However, sources tell me the move is not just for Sunny -- he misses Sandra immensely.

"Jesse is a tortured man. He blew it big time and will live with regret every day of his life until he wins Sandra back. He knows it's not going to be easy, but he isn't going to take no for an answer."

And whatever he is doing seems to be working. Insiders tell me Sandra and Jesse are talking regularly and that the actress thought long and hard before finally signing the divorce papers.

'Bachelor' Jake in Love With a Man

Now that the shocking news of Jake and Vienna's split has finally sunk in, everyone is asking: What went wrong? Was another person involved?

Now, I can reveal for the first time that the problem with the relationship was that Jake was in love with a man -- himself!

"Jake spent longer getting ready and looking at himself in the mirror than Vienna or any other woman for that matter," laughed a friend of the ex-couple.

"He would practice his smile over and over, with teeth and without teeth showing. He also was obsessive about his hair, getting it groomed at least once a week. He also insisted on not being seen in public for at least two hours after he woke up. Jake was convinced his face needed to drop after lying down. Only after two hours had his face dropped enough to be seen in public. "

But best of all is watching Jake look at himself and say, "I love you and give you the final rose." This man in the mirror needs to get a life.

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Wednesday 30 June

By Unkown

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Mmmh not buying the "she though hard and long"...actually everybody agree that it was fast!
She, for me , is done with him (she wouldn't have signed or definately launch the procedure for single mother adoption...
She was in love maybe but finally saw the Jesse that most people without blindfold knew way before!
The reason, for me, she is talking to him is only to talk about the kids but not their relations...
As for the "won't take no as an answer", what kind of loser is he? he blew it, he expect what? he expect her to take him back after everything that happened? What an EGO...
JJ, is the worst example anyone could (or would take) , if he ever loved Sandra, he would just leave her alone but he is so Selfish that he want his "object" back...The more it's going, the more he make me sick!
DIVORCE IS A DIVORCE! Get over it! you had everything but lost it for a nobody...Let her leave an happy life now!

By panzhu006

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"He would practice his smile over and over, with teeth and without teeth showing. He also was obsessive about his hair, getting it groomed at least once a week. He also insisted on not being seen in public for at least two hours after he woke up. Jake was convinced his face needed to drop after lying down. Only after two hours had his face dropped enough to be seen in public. "by the way,im a lucky girl ,,i found my real love on【datelawyer.( 0 m 】It’s the largest and best club for seeking CEOs, athletes, doctors, lawyers,and so on..

By Lora

Rob Shuter says "and that the actress thought long and hard before finally signing the divorce papers".REALLY?!!!! Sandra thought for a long time - 60 days !!! LOL !!!
I think that is the quickest and most equitable divorce in Hollywood history.I admire Sandra for being strong enough to save herself! Total respect for the way she handled the situation!

By N2

JESSIE, KNOW WHEN TO FOLD EM!!!! IT'S SAD BECAUSE IT APPEARS HE REALLY LOVES HER BUT IT'S DONE. HE ISNT GOING TO CHANGE MUCH AND SHE ISNT GOING TO PUT UP WITH IT. BESIDES JESSIE BEGGING TO BE LET BACK IN, IS JUST NOT HIM. MOVE ON JESS, DONT LET YOUR PAST DICTATE YOUR FUTURE.

By Lisa

This Jessie J. is quite the jokster; plus he is in denial, the fool wasn't worried about losing S. Bullock when he was bedding porno stars ewwwwww

By laughin@afool

he must really be a hard head she dont want that trash back lol move on get a life with your hoes

By ram6968

she needs to be careful...a man obsessed is a dangerous man...she needs to remember O.J.

By Rowena Harvey

I think she is a Texas girl and she does not drink Colt45, she will use it. OJ wife may she RIP was no match for him.

By jmslotnick

Jesse James is living in a dream world. Sandra Bullock is a very strong and too smart to ever take this philanderer back. He is just wanting to be married to America's most loveable and likeable movie star again for both keeping his name in the news and even though he had his own money, he may want hers too. I would not trust this man as far as the extent of my little finger.

By observer

I predict she'll take him back after this all blows over. She seems to be a little desperate also. She knew what he was when she married him, and since he got caught she had to do something to save face. She's not the greatest thing since sliced bread either.

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I'm going to go along w/"unknowns" post,he's ready to take that bet, & I will double it! Who am I kidding, triple it:)

By Unknown1

I agree observer, she knew what he was before she took that leap. Why do good girls like "bad" guys? It happens everyday allday!

By salmo60

James might have a problem with the defintion of "finished". He should man up, admit he shtupped seven "ho's" during his marriage, then go away. Stalking ain't cool.

Observer : i'm ready to take that bet :lol:She don't seem desperate at all when you see her with her son or on the scene...
He , in the other hand, seem desperate to be back with his bank ...oups, love :lol:
By that time, she'll find somebody worthy, she is beautiful, rich and adorable (+ funny)...she definately can do better than him!

By mellors

he is beginning to sound like a stalker...

By Dayna

Hi Mellors.....honestly I thought the same thing!!! This idiot didn't want her when he had her, but now that he is actually divorced from her, he wants to win her back! I think the only reason he wants to win her back is so he can dump on her again. He is a major control freak and his behavior is getting creepy.

Totally agree - Careful, Sandra - stalkings normally turn into some form of aggression, especially if he's not going to stop until he gets you back

By Bonbon

got a funny feeling she'll take the skunk back, oh sandra you can do so better....you'll get over him, plus he isn't even attractive girl!

By sleepyhead

Sorry Jesse, "As The Ink Dries" Sandra is moving on. And You Should Too.

By sarahb

Why is everyone so proud of Sandra Bulluck? She did the only thing any sensible woman would do. The difference is, she will probably go back to him. As for Jesse knowing when to fold em, he hasn't folded anything, and he certainly isn't walking away. He is so hard headed and determined to have his way. He probably doesn't really care that she left him. He just cares that he isn't the one who made the move. That wasn't his plan so his pride is hurt. He wants to show the world he can get her back if he wants to. I hope she proves to him that he isn't all that.

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