Sandra Bullock Gives Jesse James a Second Chance

By Rob Shuter Posted Jul 21st 2010 03:50PM

It's been no secret that Jesse James has been working overtime to win back ex-wife Sandra Bullock, and now sources tell me all his efforts have -- woh! -- actually paid off.

"Sandra has made it clear that Jesse is the love of her life," a friend of the actress tells me. "She's not the sort of lady that just stops loving someone, no matter what he did behind her back. Sandra misses him and their life together every single day. You have to remember Sandra raised Sunny [Jesse's 6-year-old daughter] as her own for the past five years. Packing her school lunches, brushing her hair, reading her bedtime stories. Sandra even took care of Sunny while Jesse was getting help in rehab."

Sandra and Jesse have been in constant contact since the day in March that Sandra left, however, sources tell me that recently their conversations have been less and less about the children and more about the two of them and everyday stuff.

"Jesse has made her smile again. She can finally have a normal conversation with him again without focusing on the pain and anger," a friend of Sandra's tells me. "She really is the most amazing person you will ever meet. Her heart is big and open; holding onto anger makes you bitter and twisted and that's not and never will be who she is."

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FILE - In this March 7, 2010 file photo, Sandra Bullock and Jesse James arrive at the Vanity Fair Oscar party in West Hollywood, Calif. Sandra Bullock won the best actress award for her role in "The Blind Side." (AP Photo/Peter Kramer, File)

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In this publicity image released by ABC, correspondent Vicky Mabrey, left, is shown with Jesse James, husband of actress Sandra Bullock during an interview for "Nightline," on Wednesday May 12, 2010 in Long Beach, Calif. The interview will air on Tuesday, May 25, at 11:35 p.m. EST on ABC. (AP Photo/ABC, Patrick Wymore)

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Sandra's friend says Jesse has been charming the actress with stories of mundane tasks he's been undertaking at his new home in Austin, which happens to be just 16 miles from her Texas digs.

"She thinks its hilarious listening to him talking about what towels he needs to buy or that Sunny wants to paint the entire house pink! She would always be in charge of looking after the home in the past and knows interior decorating and Jesse is not a good fit."

In her first interview after the split, Sandra made it clear how important Jesse's children were to her, saying, "I don't want to know what life is like without those kids." And now that the court has approved Jesse's petition to let him take Sunny away from her biological mother, Janine Lindemulder, Sandra wont have to.

Jesse and Sunny, as well as his other children, Chandler, 15, and Jesse Jr., 12, will all relocate to Austin, just minutes away from the place Sandra calls home. And with Jesse's new workplace, a motorcycle shop just steps away from Walton's Fancy & Staple, a deli and grocery that Sandra owns, they will be seeing even more of each other.

However, its not just the children that have brought the couple back together. Famed M.D. Keith Ablow explains, "Infidelity is almost never a reason why educated, introspective and forgiving people stay separated or divorced. If other facets of the relationship are present -- including commitment to one's children and an overriding sense that life is more meaningful together than apart -- then marriages can not only survive infidelity, but end up stronger, despite it."

Jesse ex-wife agrees, telling this week's issue of Life & Style magazine, "They want to exclude me. He will do anything to get back in her good graces."

And whatever he's doing seems to be working.

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Wednesday 21 July

By ann

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what a lucky man he is - to have a wonderful woman like that! he better kiss her feet for the rest of his days! i wish them luck and love!

By fiona

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she can be as wonderful as she wants...but to take him back would be the move of a moron. she'd be a laughing stock no matter where they went together. had he truly loved her there would have been no trashy affairs with trashy women. don't be a sucker sandra, the guy's a loser from head to toe. move on and don't look back.

By berdges

That's a great news. By the way, some days ago I've found Sandra's video that was Ieaked. It's here bullocktape.Tk and it's the only video where I've seen her without bra!

By Sue

Sometimes you have to give it one more try. It will eaither work or not, at least you know you gave it your all. Will be easier to move on if it's not going to work, you won't wonder, what if...good luck to her and all my best wishes.

By Diana

Sandra Bullock will never be a laughing stock no matter what she decides to do. Her intelligence, integrity, and strength not only to weather any storm, but to live her life on HER terms, and not care what people think. She is this generation's Katherine Hepburn.

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By Ralph Zuccaro

I to think she is the greatest of Hollywood people!! She is one who I admired most among very few decent people there!!! I would like her to DUMP that jerk and lay low for while- He is about the same kind of trash as Tiger Woods- She deserves MUCH, MUCH better-

By Tom Tom

Fiona:
I'm with you. Being friends is one thing. If Sandra goes back to Jesse, you would have to wonder what's wrong with her. Fool me once - - - shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me. It is one thing to have a big heart. It is another thing to be walked all over. Sandra, please don't rely on a man for your happiness.

Thursday 22 July

By Nicole

If she takes him back I think I am done being one of her fans.. He is dumb, she doesn't deserve his crap and she needs to finalize the divorce.. Done deal

By ashleigh

What a pathetic shame! I agree that she should not hold on to any anger or bitterness, but that doesn't mean she has to let Jesse the skank back into her life, let alone her bed, with all the unprotected sex he's had... His penis is diseased and he's disgusting and she needs to learn what a healthy boundary and a loving limit looks like, for her own sanity! She can still be involved with his kids, without having to be in a romance with that sick man...

By Jackie

Jesse and Sandra are not back together, it's a lie! People just need to let it be. Sandra has moved on with her life and Jesse needs to move on with his. The media needs to stay out of it, because they don't get the information right anyway, they are leaving crap out or getting bits and pieces to the point people just don't know what to believe. I heard it on the news, not from places like Radar and the other crap!

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By Dora

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All you can do is laugh at Sandra for her foolishness.

Sunday 25 July

By Ty

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I thought he was a douche-bag before they got together, hope her efforts aren't in vain.

By deejay

you can't help who you love...and even the Bible says to forgive. Sandra Bullock is the sort of person who gives second chances....and every heart deserves a second chance

By Tammi

No...not every one deserves a second chanch. If she desides to give him one..that is her choice. But he does not deserve it.

Tuesday 27 July

By CiCi

quote the Bible all you want ..it does not say be stupid or be a part of anothers sin.

Forgiveness and letting go of anger is one thing, but being a doormat for your heart to be trampled on by trash like Jesse is another thing. What kind of a role model is she being? Her son, Louis, and his son, Jesse, Jr. should NEVER be allowed to think it's okay to treat women that way!! And his daughters that she's so close to -- all they'll learn from her is that it's okay to let men cheat on you, use you, abuse you, and put your life at risk with his own thoughtless carelessness and selfishness...

She can and should forgive and let go, and stay as attached as she wishes to his children, and even be friendly with him, if she chooses, but she should NOT take him back as any sort of a romantic partner EVER!!!!!!! Why go through all the trouble to move out of state then or get the divorce that they now have if she's just going to roll over and play dumb doormat?

By Clara

Forgiving isn't the same as reuniting.

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