Halle Berry Talks Breakup for First Time: 'We're Still Friends'

In the September issue of
Vogue,
Halle Berry opens up about her breakup with Gabriel Aubry for the first time.
"It's just that you realize you are not meant to go the distance with everybody. We were meant to bring this amazing little person into the world. And I think that's why we came together. And because of that, we are going to be together, forever, all three of us. We are a family until we are not here anymore," she tells the magazine.
Berry and Aubry,
who split this past April, have a 2-year-old daughter, Nahla, together. They'd been together four years when they ended their relationship.
"We have always been friends, we're still friends, we love each other very much, and we both share the love of our lives. And we are both 100 percent committed to being the best parents we can be. And while it was not a love connection for us, he was absolutely the right person to have this child with because she is going to have an amazing father. And that was really important to me. We'll make sure we always do what is right for her and put her first. And she will see as she grows that we have a lot of love for each other," she adds in the interview.
Berry refused to remain committed to her ex romantically just for her daughter's sake. "I don't think I'm unlike a lot of people. I am just someone who is trying to find that mate, and I think it's a really hard thing to do. And I am not willing to stay somewhere where I am not really happy. And I am not willing to pretend I am for the kid's sake or so that I don't have to go through another public humiliation."
But the actress believes that the breakup is a positive thing. "It's about accepting who we really are, not who we want to be. As much as I have always wanted to be in this committed relationship and have the picket fence and grow old with the same person, I'm coming to terms with: Maybe that's just not who I am."
Back when they first split, reports suggested that it was the 9-year age difference that caused the friction. (Berry is 43, Aubry is 34.)
"Gabriel just felt it wasn't working anymore. When they were first together, the 9-year age difference between them didn't phase him, she was the most beautiful woman he had ever dated and he was totally in love. But as time went on he started feeling it more and more. Also, Gabriel started noticing other women and being attracted to others, and he felt it just wasn't right to stay with Halle in those circumstances," a source told
Radar Online.
A friend close to the Oscar winner also believed Aubry to be jealous,
PEOPLE reported. "I got the sense that he was jealous of her, that this is another example of a man not being able to deal with a successful and beautiful woman."
Another friend confided in PEOPLE that he liked to spend time with other female models. "He is around them all the time for work. He wants to be free for a while."
Aubry hit back at his critics following the breakup. "While I will not comment on all of the wild inaccuracies being speculated about in the media, I am sad to say that Halle and I have decided together to separate at this time," he told
Access Hollywood.
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She is, and will forever be, one of the most special and beautiful people that I have ever known, and I am certain that we will continue to have only love and respect for one another. We have been blessed with the most amazing daughter in the world, and her happiness and well-being are the most important thing for both of us," he concluded.

The two have been true to their word when it comes to raising their daughter, and have been spotted together occasionally since the breakup.
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Re "Gabriel just felt it wasn't working anymore. When they were first together, the 9-year age difference between them didn't phase him..."
That's FAZE, not "phase." Quotation marks where the context of the sentence make it clear that no one is being quoted. Disjointed sentences. What an incoherent piece of writing. Somebody's actually PAID to write this JUNK (and people actually waste time reading it)?
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So that don't apply to you. You had to read the article to know that.
Sage, seem to me you are actually are reading it too..LOL
u did if u have nothing nice to say get off the internet
you read it. ;)
No, the correct editorial term is PHASE. Goodness. Please understand correct grammar before you critique. lol!
No, in point of fact Sage_on_the_Hudson did use the correct word. Its *faze*, not *phase*.
Here's the definition of the word:
faze
–verb (used with object), fazed, faz·ing.
to cause to be disturbed or disconcerted; daunt: The worst insults cannot faze him.
It's nice to hear from you, Halle Berry. I'm sorry you and Gabriel Aubry decided to break up. I thought you two were a match made in heaven. You looked so cute together. Sometimes, things just don't work out, and it's better to move on. However, it's great you two are still friends and that you'll both work to be the best parents you can be. Your daughter, Nahla, is gorgeous. I think she'll grow up to be a supermodel or even an actress just like you. I can only wonder if you're dealing with the terrible twos like many parents do. That time in a child's life can be quite challenging, but it can also be very rewarding. Best of luck to you as well as Gabriel.
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Wise up! Do you really believe that this woman cares what you think? Geez!
Halle still remains the most beautiful woman on the planet!!
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I agree, she is beautiful and I'm going to purchase the September issue of vouge, because Halle is on the front cover. other wise I dont buy vouge.
Halle, call me. I asked Robin Wright to call, but I have not heard from her yet. You still have a chance.
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Do you have money? If not dont go there, Halle do not want to take care of you. No one is going to enter into her life that she don't trust or know believe me.
This is funny
Halle, please read on the PETA website about Ringling Brothers and what they do to those poor elephants. You're an animal lover, right? If you see it, you won't believe it. It'll make you sick.
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Halle, you're a lovely woman with a lovely daughter, but PLEASE don't take her to see Ringling or any other circus that abuses animals. Those elephants and big cats suffer terribly in training and transport; what goes on backstage is definitely not pretty! Please teach Nahla humane values.
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Good luck Halle ... Enjoy your Beautiful Daughter .. I know she'll be always as beautiful as her Mommy...
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I used to have a tremendous amount of respect for Halle Berry. She vowed not to take her clothes off and then did. She also had a hit and run added to her portfolio, and she didn't know how much damage she did, she could have killed somebody & then chose to save herself. Another D-Oprafied Hollywood actress who cares deeply about humanity, it's people she can't get along with.
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GET A LIFE!!!
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