Patricia Arquette and Thomas Jane DivorceAfter filing for divorce and quickly making amends in 2009, Patricia Arquette and Thomas Jane are splitting up.

"The split is completely amicable and their prime focus is their daughter," a rep tells PEOPLE. "They ask that their privacy be respected at this time."

The 'Medium' and 'True Romance' actress met the star of 'Hung' and 'The Punisher' in 2001; they married in 2006 in Venice, Italy.

Arquette, 42, initiated a divorce from Jane, 41, in January 2009, citing irreconcilable differences. She sought sole custody of their 7-year-old daughter Harlow Olivia Calliope at the time.

By September that year, all seemed well, with Arquette telling Ellen DeGeneres, "We're more in love than ever. It's great. We've been together for eight years and relationships are tough but we're really happy."