Jesse James Plans to Introduce His Kids to New Girlfriend

By Rob Shuter Posted Aug 20th 2010 05:00PM

No one can say Sandra Bullock's ex-husband doesn't move on fast. Days after going public in Sin City with his new girlfriend, Kat Von D, Jesse James plans to introduce her to his three adorable children, including 6-year-old Sunny.

"Jesse wants to get back to normal as quickly as possible and seems to be swapping out Sandra for Kat," a friend of James tells me. "He likes the routine of having a partner, someone who is always around and can help him out raising his kids. Would he rather be with back with Sandy? Of course. But finally he knows she will never forgive him."

Which is exactly what Kat Von D has already done. "I am a believer that we're all human and we're all capable of making mistakes," she said on the Kevin & Bean radio show Thursday. "I think if I were to be crucified for my drug addiction three years ago now, it would be hard to live with that. I'm sober now, and it's awesome. But I have made mistakes, too ... I've got a lot of respect for Jesse and how he handled it."

And although Von D, 28, has been friends with James, 41, since she was 22, relationship experts agree that it's way too soon to be dating -- let alone thinking of introducing his children to his new girlfriend.

"For Jesse James to even have a 'girlfriend' at this point is ridiculous," Matt Titus, relationship guru and author of 'Why Hasn't He Called,' tells me. "Even though they have known each other for a while, to make the jump to boyfriend and girlfriend is utterly absurd. Jesse James should keep his children insulated from his ego-driven, fame-seeking and opportunistic romantic choices. You cannot have a significant relationship filled with love, commitment and trust six months after your marriage ends because of your 'poor judgment.' Jesse James has a history of only dating celebrities, so we must question his motive and frown upon what impact this might have on his children."

Beth Feldman, respected founder of RoleMommy.com agrees. "I think it's definitely too soon for the kids to meet Jesse's new girlfriend, but he obviously didn't think about how his actions would affect his kids the first time around -- why would he stop now?"

For once, Jesse, it's time to start thinking about others rather than yourself.

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Friday 20 August

By allyce

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this guy is such a dirtbag....i think the two of them would go well together

By ijbaidu

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And although Von D, 28, has been friends with James, 41, since she was 22, relationship experts agree that it's way too soon to be dating -- let alone thinking of introducing his children to his new girlfriend. im la wyer,30. i'm young ,ho't but feel lonely and still hur ting.i may bein need of someone to love..so.i sign up on Se ekw elathy ,C'omto meet my love,,It's the best place tofind wealt'hy or se'xy lover. i cant risk myself..So i got a us'ername(ho't2me88)because i think life is short we should en'joy it right?

a f riend of Jam es tell s me. "He likes the routine of having a partner, someone who is always around and can help him out raising his kids. Would he rather be with back with Sandy? Of course. But finally he knows she will never forgive him."im law ye r,30. i'm young ,ho't b ut f eel lon ely and still hurting.i may bein need of some one to love..so.i sign up on Seekw elathy ,C'omto meet my love,,It's the best place tof ind wealt'hy or se'xy lover. i cant risk myself..So i got a us'e rnam e(ho't2me88)because i think life is short we should en'joy it right?

By SUE

He is a clueless idiot.

By oldman

does anyone really care

By georgie

With everything that the kids have gone through is it really smart of Jessie to introduce them to someone new. Shouldn't he wait until things cool down some and he isn't one of the most hated men in America? Wow, it is good that he puts is kids first!

Saturday 21 August

By ajschrod

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allyce: What about having the kids meet this freak? If only these low-life professional "girlfriends" would realize how scuzzy they look with their body ink!

By lisa

I find it incredible that AOL continues to allow this trash to be published.

By Damon

These two dirtbags deserve each other. They both no personalities and both look like skanks from the swamp. He did Sandra Bullock a favor. Oh and heres some advice Kat: You said you aren't worried that he cheated on Sandra? Heres some news...men who cheat once, cheat again and again and again and all you insecure idiots think "Ill be the one to change him" ...quit drinking your own bathwater. what he did to sandra he will do to you. thats just plain facts. have fun

By George

Two Gross excuses for human beings. They are perfect for each other!

By dawn

So she says "we're all human and we're all capable of making mistakes" NO JOKE. And if it was one affair then MAYBE that would fly but it wasn't so he shouldn't be forgiven and if she's enough of an idiot to think he should be, since she's forgiven him, she's probably idiot enough to believe he won't do the same to her. Someone else wrote it 'they deserve each other'.

By Josh

That girl Kat is the skankiest girl I have ever seen. I dont think they make condoms thick enough for me to f her.

By alimcelrath

he is the worlds worst husband, father, friend, any women can have,stay away, he will only hurt you..
i likes that kind of women, and she wants the publicity..
so i dont care about either one..
only the kids suffer..
WHY, doesnt he go out to dinner with his kids, or take the kids
somewhere, why does always have to have a women or two with him..
when is he ever with his kids..they dont have moms, and not much
of a dad...sorry, i hope he doesnt have any more!!!

By STEVE

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HE DOESNT WANT ANYONE TO KNOW HES GAY.

By RT

And I say, Why not? It'll only mean a few extra months the kids spend in therapy.

By JoyRptr

He will put her through 6 months of hell, she'll end up back on drugs, then he will kick her to the curb for some other skank(s) and blame it on her "problems".

By holliferjo

There certainly are alot of self righteous blowhards on the blogs today. I love Kat Von D and like Jesse. He's human like the rest of us, at least like me. I make mistakes too. I say if you guys make each other happy, go for it! For the rest of you, suck it!

By kathy

holliferjo,I am with you!!!these idiots would believe money was falling from the sky if the net posted it!!I think they are just friends,an were out eating dinner and just being friends,and if it was more who the hell's business is it?they are both single.I do not believe that he is going to do anything stupid with his kids,besides they probobly know her.

By Marcie

This guy is a monster. I should know, I lived by him and Bullock in Sunset Beach. He showed the world his true colors and they are not red, white and blue

By mags

If he is going to introduce his children to Kat already, then he must feel she is going to be around awhile. Seems hurtful to his children, their already going to have to adjust to a new home, school, ect

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