
Why Is Michelle Williams' Sex Scene Rated NC-17 While Natalie Portman's Is R?

For all the hype about
Natalie Portman's steamy lesbian sex scene with
Mila Kunis in 'Black Swan,' the scene was still tame enough to earn an R rating from the Motion Picture Association of America's ratings board, which means it can (and will) be shown in theaters all over the country. Like Portman,
Michelle Williams is on the receiving end of an oral sex scene in 'Blue Valentine' (opening Dec. 31). Despite the similarity of the scenes, however, the Williams scene earned her film an NC-17 rating, which would keep it out of most mainstream theaters, out of the movie-section ads in many newspapers and off the shelves of most mainstream DVD retailers.
The directors of both films acknowledge a double standard at work here, according to the
Los Angeles Times. The Times article, however, merely hints at what the reasons might be for such a double standard, saying only that the 'Blue Valentine' scene is more "emotionally authentic" than the 'Black Swan' scene -- which is to say, it's more convincing and realistic and less fantasy-like. That's certainly one possible reason, but there are others that go unmentioned in the article.
[
Warning: The following paragraph contains spoilers about 'Black Swan' and 'Blue Valentine.'] One striking similarity about the two sex scenes is that there's no explicit nudity in them. In 'Black Swan,' Portman and Kunis are rival ballerinas who bond one night over alcohol and then harder drugs. They wind up in bed together and, in a discreetly shot scene, most of the action takes place on Portman's face as she reacts to Kunis' oral ministrations. In 'Blue Valentine,' Ryan Gosling and Williams are a couple going through the highs and lows of their relationship. An early high point is shown when Gosling pleasures Williams, in a scene discreetly shot in a single take, from the side of the bed. [
End spoilers.]
Both scenes are about the characters letting go of their inhibitions. Both are arguably crucial to the plot. But the Williams scene is all about pleasure and emotional intimacy. The Portman scene is creepier and more surreal, reflecting the character's drug high and her ongoing psychological breakdown. The viewer is meant to consider the possibility that the scene isn't even actually happening, that it's just a fantasy, a hallucination.
The surreality of the Portman scene may be one reason the ratings board found it less taboo than the Williams scene. It's pretty rare, after all, for a mainstream Hollywood movie to depict with seriousness, realism and frankness a woman's pleasure. Sure, you'll see characters talk about it or fake it elaborately for comic effect (the deli scene in 'When Harry Met Sally' comes to mind) or gloss it over with soft-focus lighting and lush strings. You'll also see it presented in a deliberately unreal way, as in 'Black Swan.' But to see it unvarnished, presented as is, in 'Blue Valentine' is apparently just too much for the ratings board.
"The essence of our film is that it's intimate and emotional and the sex doesn't feel fake. It's an honest relationship between two people, and it feels real because I have great actors," 'Blue Valentine' director Derek Cianfrance told the Times. "It's as if the MPAA is saying, 'Your actors are good -- but they're too good.'"
'Black Swan' director Darren Aronofsky seems to agree. "I've heard the 'Blue Valentine' scene is more emotionally authentic," he told the Times, noting that he hadn't yet seen the film. But Aronofsky's problem with the ratings board is more that it seems to rate violence more leniently than sex, "which to me seems totally backward."
The
ratings board has spent decades brushing off complaints over its seemingly different standards for sex and for violence. But that may be a red herring to distract from the other possible reason for the different ratings given to 'Black Swan' and 'Blue Valentine,' which is: who made them.
'Black Swan' comes from Fox Searchlight, part of the same studio family as 20th Century Fox, one of the six major studios that make up the MPAA membership and pay its salaries. 'Blue Valentine' is an independently-financed film that was purchased by the Weinstein Company, which is not an MPAA member, and is distributing the film independently. 'Black Swan' stars A-lister Portman and mainstream starlet Kunis ('Forgetting Sarah Marshall,' 'That '70s Show'). 'Blue Valentine' stars Gosling and Williams, two actors known more for little-seen independent films than mainstream blockbusters. 'Black Swan' comes from a well-established director (Aronofsky, whose previous credits include such well-regarded movies as 'The Wrestler' and 'Requiem for a Dream,' and whose next project is a mega-budget superhero sequel, 'The Wolverine,' for 20th Century Fox). 'Blue Valentine' marks the first major fiction feature from Cianfrance, a little-known director of documentaries.
It shouldn't matter, of course, who financed, directed or stars in a film; the ratings board ought to rate it strictly on its own merits. Historically, however, that hasn't been the case. As Kirby Dick asserted in 'This Film Is Not Yet Rated,' his 2006 documentary about the inner workings of the ratings board, the MPAA has historically been more lenient toward the studios that pay the bills (and which generally forbid their directors from making NC-17 movies) than it is to indies who are not members but must submit their films anyway if they want a rating that theater owners will accept as valid. Many independent directors (including Aronofsky, interviewed in Dick's film) have complained over the years that they're held to a harsher standard than their studio counterparts. ('This Film' also showed the ratings board's tendency over the years to give restrictive ratings to movies that display female gratification.)
The 'Blue Valentine' complaint is only the latest in a recent series of gripes about ratings board decisions. The Weinstein Company also complained about the R rating given to 'The King's Speech' for excessive profanity. The film, now in limited release, is earning Oscar buzz for Colin Firth's performance as King George VI (father of Britan's current Queen Elizabeth II), who overcomes a speech impediment in part by unleashing a barrage of swear words. It's an inspirational film that is now beyond the reach of most children because of one scene, but at least mainstream theaters will show it, which is why the Weinsteins decided not to appeal the rating to the MPAA's ratings appeals board. It is, however, appealing the NC-17 rating for 'Blue Valentine,' since that rating could keep it out of most theaters and cost the distributor millions of dollars. The MPAA says it has a policy of not commenting on pending appeals, so it hasn't discussed its reasoning for the 'Blue Valentine' rating.
Granted, Harvey and Bob Weinstein have been accused in the past (when they ran Miramax) of ginning up ratings controversies just to gain extra publicity. Still, one might give them the benefit of the doubt, since they stand to lose money if the NC-17 rating sticks, and since they're supporting Gianfrance's insistence that he won't cut the scene even if the appeal fails.
There is one standard complaint about the ratings board that does not seem to apply here. As Dick documented, the board has historically given harsher ratings to scenes of same-sex coupling than to straight sex scenes. That's certainly not the case with 'Black Swan' and 'Blue Valentine.' The ratings board may have muddled standards regarding female sexual pleasure,
profanity and
violence, but at least it's no longer quite so fearful of lesbianism. So long as the lesbians are played by household-name actresses in MPAA-member films, and they're not totally naked, and they're not necessarily enjoying themselves, and they might just be fantasizing, that is ...
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In the past I've never paid much attention to the ratings, if a movie has actors I like or a story plot that looks good, I go. I never put much thought into the ratings, except to internally acknowledge that violence is much more accepted than sex overall (which I consider a sad state of affairs). Sex is a human need and I'd rather see it in the context of a human story than in a porno. Why is OK for our children to see so much violence, but not realistic love?
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The ineffectual MPAA ratings board, consisting of imbecilic, overly sensitive, tightlipped prudes, needs to be disbanded and a new system set in its place. This studio-run system is outdated, inconsistent, unfair, unbalanced and absurd.
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We don't need ratings on films anymore. It isn't the 1950's. People can now go on the internet and read about any film being made and make an informed decision on whether or not the content is suitable for them and children. We don't need some Big Brother telling us what's morally good for us to view.
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Ratings isn't about what is morally good, it's about what is age appropriate. So you don't unwittingly let your 4 year old watch a prison rape scene, a woman selling herself for money to a group of 20 or more men, or someone pulling an eyeball from someones living head with a fork. These are all things that are way to graphic to display for someone who isn't old enough to know what sex is, much less watch it be taken from someone forcibly.
Not watching something for moral reasons is a personal decision, without something displaying the type of content, how do you know that requiem for a dream shows a mans arm being amputated while his wife is having sex with another woman in a room full of horny men and rolling around in the cash afterward. The title of the movie could suggest a fun-filled land of magic, the trailers for the movie certainly didn't indicate that level of grotesque.
If my daughter just turned 5, do you think I should let her watch it? And if there was no rating, and it just hit theaters and no one had scene it and the trailer is 15 seconds long and doesn't show anything from the movie, how will I know if she is old enough for the content?
@The Cap'n:
There should be a difference between letting parents know what's age-appropriate for children and discouraging filmmakers from making movies that are appropriate only for adults. Unfortunately, the current system doesn't do the former very well and does the latter all too well.
Black Swans trailer has a small shot from a scene in the movie with Natalie Portman is without a doubt masturbating. So the woman self-gratification and being pleasured angle doesn't work here either, if the argument is it would give it a harsher rating.
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@The Cap'n:
Well, [spoiler alert:] she starts to, but she's interrupted by her mother before she gets very far. So the movie essentially punishes her for exploring her own pleasure, which no doubt earned the scene some leniency from the ratings board.
It's all about how it's "viewed" by other people. In Black Swan, it's two women drunk and hopped up on drugs, which obviously must be a fantasy and not at all based in reality. Whereas in Blue Valentine, it's a heterosexual couple engaged in what is seemingly real sex. Let's face it people: the MPAA are prudish and delusional people. And the MPAA are in cahoots with some of the conservative people of the country, who whine if they see a nipple that isn't mentioned in the teeny, tiny print beneath the rating.
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NC-17? If there's no gratuitous nudity or excessive violence it probably will be rated suitable for 12 year olds and above when it's showed on dutch, german and french tv in a couple of years :-)
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How is this different from Y tu mamá también, which, if memory serves, received an R?
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It's backwards that movies such as "Saw" where people are sliced apart is acceptable viewing. Seems like some of those old Puritanical views of sex being a sin, etc...still exist. It's silly.
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No parent in their right mind would take a child to one of these films regardless of the rating. This is about one thing, money. Theater owners want to make money and they know the only way they can do it is to avoid NC-17 rated films. I as a parent don't need nor do I want an organization telling me which films are good for my kids and which aren't, that is MY job. This antiquated system of rating films for monetary purposes needs to end. Thank you very much Mr. Valenti, but your ratings system has run its course and now it needs to go.
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