Sting and Trudie Explain Their Lasting RomanceFor a lot of people, love is hard work, if not impossible. But for Sting and his wife, it's their gift to each other. In the cover story for the February issue of Harper's Bazaar, Sting and Trudie Styler reflect on their 30-year marriage and discuss what the secret is to sustaining a healthy romance.

"When we see each other, it's romance. I don't think pedestrian sex is very interesting," Sting says. "There's a playfulness we have; I like the theater of sex. I like to look good. I like her to dress up. I like to dress her up."

To Sting and his wife, it's not even necessarily a secret as much as it is just a perfect match.

"Relationships aren't easy, and I don't think they're particularly natural, but we're lucky because we actually like each other," he says. "We love each other -- that's a given -- but Trudie lights my world up when she comes into a room. I don't take her for granted."