Barbara Eden: 'Jeannie' Wasn't Sexist, but O.J. Simpson Was

In her memoir, 'Jeannie Out of the Bottle,' Barbara Eden shares the story of her long and charmed life in Hollywood. From her Marilyn Monroe connection, to working with Elvis Presley, to of course starring as one of pop culture's iconic TV characters. Although Eden has thrived career-wise, she has also experienced a terrible amount of tragedy. Her second husband was verbally abusive and a cocaine addict and most heart-breakingly her only child, Matthew, died of a drug overdose at age 35. Eden talks to
PopEater about the lingering pain of losing her son, how she dealt with her difficult 'Jeannie' costar Larry Hagman -- she also loudly disputes claims the show was sexist -- and reveals what it's like to be hit on by O.J. Simpson ("uncomfortable") and Elvis Presley ("sweet").
How many men have told you that you were their first crush?
(Laughs) Lots of them but it's when they were little boys.
It's amazing how popular 'I Dream of Jeannie' still is.
It's an anomaly isn't it? Jeannie has never been off the air.
You don't get residuals, do you?
No, but I'm happy that it's on. Understand the minute Jeannie went down I went on and did other things, although they haven't been as persuasive, I did do other characters and series. For me it was fine because I was active and working.
Is there any country in the world that doesn't show Jeannie?
I'm not sure, I only know by my fan mail. I get mail from South America, Europe, Israel, Eastern Europe, and Asia. I even get fan mail from Iran.
Your costar, Larry Hagman, sounds like he was a jerk on the set.
Well, I'll tell you he was interesting. He kept things alive let's put it that way. I think Larry was going through a very difficult time in his life. I'm no psychiatrist; he's wonderful, thoughtful and loving. He truly is but he's also a perfectionist and he wants things to be just right from his point of view and it frustrated him horribly that the scripts weren't what he would do, the way he wanted that carried over in his relationship with the crew, never with me though.
You were lucky he was nice to you.
I think we really got along. I would see the behavior coming and turn around and go into my dressing room.
You write how he urinated on the set.
That's what I hear. I was on set but not present. Whenever I knew something was going to happen I left, I went to my dressing room, you could tell when it was coming.
Sounds like a spoiled child having a tantrum.
Well yeah, but it kept you awake.
What do you say to critics who say the show was sexist?
It wasn't at all. First of all it's a fantasy and Jeannie was doing her job which is to please her master, it could have been a mistress. In this case it was a guy who was really cute so she fell in love immediately. She'd been in that bottle a long time. Her main thrust was to make him happy no matter what and that's where you get the comedy, that and the fact she was a fish out of water.
Did you think it was silly NBC wouldn't show your belly button?
Well it was silly. It didn't bother me. I didn't care one way or the other. It all happened because a reporter came down on the set and said to me that he didn't believe I had a belly button. He wrote about it and it got picked up by stringers all over the country. It sort of ballooned.
You were a very good girl. You never succumbed to the casting couch.
Well, I got married. I guess it didn't stop a lot of people but it stopped me.
You must have been hit on 24/7.
It's hard to answer because sometimes as a woman you may be hit on but if you don't acknowledge it, it goes no further.
OJ Simpson really did hit on you.
That was very uncomfortable. That was something you tried not to acknowledge but it was blatant. I was very surprised how aggressive he was, also because it was in front of so many people. Of course they blamed me because of what I wore. I wore a shammy pant suit which was a natural color and a black turtleneck sweater; I had a jacket over it. It was very modest but they said, 'Well she wore this clingy thing so what else is he going to do?' That was I guess a blatant case of male chauvinism.
You must have encountered lots of male chauvinism in Hollywood in the 50's and 60's.
Oh the men were definitely in control. I didn't always mind that actually because you know it takes a little responsibility away from the woman. You can say, 'Aha, it's his fault.'
You worked with Elvis.
He was a delight, a lovely guy. He was very well bred by his mother who had taught him manners. I'd walk on the set and he'd stand up immediately and pull a chair out for me. We laughed and flirted but it was tame, it was sweet. Years later I was with my second husband and we saw him in Vegas and Elvis said to him, 'How did you ever get with her? I tried!' I looked at him like, 'What? Come on,' but it was nice.
You lost your only child to a drug overdose.
The pain never goes away. I didn't go to support groups. I did before he had the overdose. I went to Al-Anon so I was very involved before his death because I was trying to find ways to help him. I felt helpless for many years.
It must be nice to have played a character that's so beloved.
For me it's like looking back at someone else. She's very, very easy to live with. I like her a lot. I'm so lucky and so appreciative. I have never had a rude fan. They're all very mannerly, as my mother would say, and good, they're nice people.
You worked in Vegas for years. Are you still performing?
No, no there's a time when you hang up your tap shoes.
Do you miss it?
I do miss it. There's something wonderful about being able to express yourself through music. I love to sing and there was so much good music when I was appearing in Vegas like 'MacArthur Park,' and 'I Will Survive,' those numbers to me were like tiny plays so I could express myself in them.
'Jeannie Out of the Bottle,' by Barbara Eden and Wendy Leigh, is in stores now.
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She's one of the good ones. People like are are few and far between, especially in show business. My hat is off to her.
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Love Barbara Eden always have she's open and honest unlike a lot of celebs. though she's more of a TV Icon than a film Icon though she appeared in films with some stars that are quite iconic. 1960's From The Terrace for example which is opposite Myrna Loy Joanne Woodward & Paul Newman not huge at the box office but she held her own against them particularly Newman & Woodward both of whom had been oscar nominated or actually won prior to the film.
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She is a good person. For years she has worked to help troubled children and does not need to have the world know of her good deeds.
One group she supports is Focus Adlescent Services.
I am sure there are more. The point is she cares about others and unlike most of Hollywood, does not need the media attention.
Don't ya just wish? That Jeannie would/could transport those pickering politicians in Washington up to the Moon or just turn them into GENIES in a lamp..then burry and just loose the lamp?
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No...you are thinking of the episode where Dr. Bellows thinks Major Healy hid tonys drivers license and Jeanie had to get Dr. Bombay to bring a birth certificate from Fiji....cause that was where the space capsule touched down...I think..
Republicans...whites only party...obama is a man of christian values..I sense it..
@ Brad Dr Bombay was from Betwitched not I dream of Jeanie!
you guys must have skipped right over the "Would you vote for Donald Trump" survey.....And Donald is really pushing the birth certificate issue. And to further respond to your rant, I would rather be an inquisitive ignorant person (if your inquisitive you won't stay ignorant) than a kool-aid drinking lemming
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Trump is a jerk who wants him in office? Maybe Snookie could be his running mate!
I forget how incredible she was in her day: she was as good- looking as any actress there ever was in Hollywood. A guy I used to work for was a WWII guy, and he swore that Kim Novak was the best-looking actress ever. Today, these boneheads don't even know who these women are, and could care less. That being said, I guess every generation has their equivalent of "Marilyn".
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Ahhhh....Kim Novak. I'm 65 and there's a woman right out of your dreams. Faced with a choice between Kim and Barbara......both!!
I just saw Barbara Eden on "The Wendy Williams Show," I'll tell ya, she still looks good after all these years! :-)
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Elvis was polite to all women...Jeanie says he was very sweet...He had more than manners on his mind !
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I am 54 and still watch I dream of Jeanie. Barbara is a real one of a kind gem. A really good person, sweet as can be, and very cute. We need more people like her in this world but unfortunately we are getting more people like Charlie Sheen and Lindsay Lohan.
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RE -ELECT NO ONE
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I liked Barbara better in "Harper Valley PTA" - As far as Trump goes ; He is all the proof you need that sh*t DOES float to the top
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Roger roger my friend, go to the white house website and you can view it there. last time I look 2 years ago it was on there to help special people like you who believe the new fancy rants and raves but then again something tells me that President Obama could personally show it to you and you would still ask to see it the very next day again so why bother with simple fools like you!
Oh if Barbara eden was a Jeannie I would wish help for fools like roger now go back and finish your rightie cool aide drink that is laced with stupidity!
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When I read the insulting language from liberals I realize that Winston Churchill was right when he said that "if you are not a liberal when you are twenty, you don't have a heart, if you are not a conservative when you are forty, you don't have a brain" All of the name calling by liberals doesn't change the fact that it was liberals that questioned John McCains birth first.
A fun show...enjoyed it for yrs...Barbara was sweet and very cute in the role....BO is not an American...............
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Sorry dip, you have to be an American to be president. It's the teabaggers like you who aren't American. Now why don't you slither back under your rock before you stupidity does any more damage?
Persons born in Hawaii ARE American citizens!