Barbara Eden: 'Jeannie' Wasn't Sexist, but O.J. Simpson Was

In her memoir, 'Jeannie Out of the Bottle,' Barbara Eden shares the story of her long and charmed life in Hollywood. From her Marilyn Monroe connection, to working with Elvis Presley, to of course starring as one of pop culture's iconic TV characters. Although Eden has thrived career-wise, she has also experienced a terrible amount of tragedy. Her second husband was verbally abusive and a cocaine addict and most heart-breakingly her only child, Matthew, died of a drug overdose at age 35. Eden talks to
PopEater about the lingering pain of losing her son, how she dealt with her difficult 'Jeannie' costar Larry Hagman -- she also loudly disputes claims the show was sexist -- and reveals what it's like to be hit on by O.J. Simpson ("uncomfortable") and Elvis Presley ("sweet").
How many men have told you that you were their first crush?
(Laughs) Lots of them but it's when they were little boys.
It's amazing how popular 'I Dream of Jeannie' still is.
It's an anomaly isn't it? Jeannie has never been off the air.
You don't get residuals, do you?
No, but I'm happy that it's on. Understand the minute Jeannie went down I went on and did other things, although they haven't been as persuasive, I did do other characters and series. For me it was fine because I was active and working.
Is there any country in the world that doesn't show Jeannie?
I'm not sure, I only know by my fan mail. I get mail from South America, Europe, Israel, Eastern Europe, and Asia. I even get fan mail from Iran.
Your costar, Larry Hagman, sounds like he was a jerk on the set.
Well, I'll tell you he was interesting. He kept things alive let's put it that way. I think Larry was going through a very difficult time in his life. I'm no psychiatrist; he's wonderful, thoughtful and loving. He truly is but he's also a perfectionist and he wants things to be just right from his point of view and it frustrated him horribly that the scripts weren't what he would do, the way he wanted that carried over in his relationship with the crew, never with me though.
You were lucky he was nice to you.
I think we really got along. I would see the behavior coming and turn around and go into my dressing room.
You write how he urinated on the set.
That's what I hear. I was on set but not present. Whenever I knew something was going to happen I left, I went to my dressing room, you could tell when it was coming.
Sounds like a spoiled child having a tantrum.
Well yeah, but it kept you awake.
What do you say to critics who say the show was sexist?
It wasn't at all. First of all it's a fantasy and Jeannie was doing her job which is to please her master, it could have been a mistress. In this case it was a guy who was really cute so she fell in love immediately. She'd been in that bottle a long time. Her main thrust was to make him happy no matter what and that's where you get the comedy, that and the fact she was a fish out of water.
Did you think it was silly NBC wouldn't show your belly button?
Well it was silly. It didn't bother me. I didn't care one way or the other. It all happened because a reporter came down on the set and said to me that he didn't believe I had a belly button. He wrote about it and it got picked up by stringers all over the country. It sort of ballooned.
You were a very good girl. You never succumbed to the casting couch.
Well, I got married. I guess it didn't stop a lot of people but it stopped me.
You must have been hit on 24/7.
It's hard to answer because sometimes as a woman you may be hit on but if you don't acknowledge it, it goes no further.
OJ Simpson really did hit on you.
That was very uncomfortable. That was something you tried not to acknowledge but it was blatant. I was very surprised how aggressive he was, also because it was in front of so many people. Of course they blamed me because of what I wore. I wore a shammy pant suit which was a natural color and a black turtleneck sweater; I had a jacket over it. It was very modest but they said, 'Well she wore this clingy thing so what else is he going to do?' That was I guess a blatant case of male chauvinism.
You must have encountered lots of male chauvinism in Hollywood in the 50's and 60's.
Oh the men were definitely in control. I didn't always mind that actually because you know it takes a little responsibility away from the woman. You can say, 'Aha, it's his fault.'
You worked with Elvis.
He was a delight, a lovely guy. He was very well bred by his mother who had taught him manners. I'd walk on the set and he'd stand up immediately and pull a chair out for me. We laughed and flirted but it was tame, it was sweet. Years later I was with my second husband and we saw him in Vegas and Elvis said to him, 'How did you ever get with her? I tried!' I looked at him like, 'What? Come on,' but it was nice.
You lost your only child to a drug overdose.
The pain never goes away. I didn't go to support groups. I did before he had the overdose. I went to Al-Anon so I was very involved before his death because I was trying to find ways to help him. I felt helpless for many years.
It must be nice to have played a character that's so beloved.
For me it's like looking back at someone else. She's very, very easy to live with. I like her a lot. I'm so lucky and so appreciative. I have never had a rude fan. They're all very mannerly, as my mother would say, and good, they're nice people.
You worked in Vegas for years. Are you still performing?
No, no there's a time when you hang up your tap shoes.
Do you miss it?
I do miss it. There's something wonderful about being able to express yourself through music. I love to sing and there was so much good music when I was appearing in Vegas like 'MacArthur Park,' and 'I Will Survive,' those numbers to me were like tiny plays so I could express myself in them.
'Jeannie Out of the Bottle,' by Barbara Eden and Wendy Leigh, is in stores now.
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go to huffington to post all you husain O libs
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Sounds like another old folk remembering the glory old days from their point of view. . kind of "I was great and every one else was there". If all you got to think about is a man pissing and a black man saying hello best to not talk and walk.
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It started with the black thing, when the juice was brought up, it put all african american black people in the hot seat
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Some of the authors questions are asinine...
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Why doesn't the person(s) in charge of this column review the responses before they are posted to be sure the content is relative to the story. President Obama and Donald Trump have nothing to do with this article and should have never been been posted in the first place. The responses should only pertain to the subject matter. This is not romper room. Grow up!
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It's a shame she's not getting residuals,but I think a lot of tv actors from the 60s don't get them either.Wonder if Larry Hagman does.
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On the I dream of Jeanie show(s),my favorite other actor was
Dr.Bellows.
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Very interesting, and I love this show, but I really prefer Sam on Bewitched. Also scary thought, i can still remember the show when it was first on and they would run contest, example when she got locked in the moon safe.
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I wish I could say some wonderful and nice things about Barbara. But I can't. All these words have been spoken. What a sweetheart.
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I loved watching Jeanie. It was a fun show -- always laugh out loud funny. For half an hour, you could forget your troubles and enjoy the crazy situations that came up.
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I loved I Dream Of Jeanie! What a fun show! Barbara Eden is the best. I notice that Kym from Dancing With The Stars looks alot like Barbara. Also Roger, get over it, he won. Being a bad sport is not attractive.
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I feel sorry for Barbara Eden. O. J. Simpson tried to hit on her.
I still watch I Dream of Jeanie. Leave Obama alone.
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Yeah good thing Barbara didn't get together with OJ he would have killed her!
Larry Hagman's behavior may be due to his self-acknowledged alcoholism, which destroyed his liver and required transplant surgery for a donor liver.
An interesting statistic about Barbara Eden's popularity. People magazine reported that their poll to find the sexiest woman alive showed that Eden in the 1990s was still No. 1, 30 years after "I Dream of Jeannie" went off the air. She was in her 50s at the time!
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i dream of jeanee huh , well I was born in the fifties and I can't get through 10 seconds of this stupid show , although I did like it back in the day . For me , unfortunately , many of the good old programs I can't sit through - the world is so different now and i just think they were good in their time , but today - NOPE !!
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Wow, on an article about a great American actress there is a lot of unrelated topics about the president.
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looks like the little whiney spell NAZI's gettin' their panties in a wad - and the folks that put this idiot in office are MORaNZ' ( morons ) - ya got a have a sense a humor - I'll get nailed for using a and ya i bet ya ' .
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DID HEALY HAVE A CRUSH ON JEANNIE? HOW WAS HIS DISPOSITION?
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G...I guess Obama had people wayyyyyyy back when he was born plant the birth notices in two papers because they knew he would be the first black president. LMAO!!!!
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While I don't much care about where Obama was born because -- like it or not -- he's the president, ANYONE can put an article in the paper. It's like Grandma, who lives in Hawaii, has a grandson born in, say, Kenya, and so she puts a birth announcement in the Hawaiian, "Barack Obama was born today to proud parents blah, blah, blah." That blurb, in itself, does not constitute "proof" of anything other than someone wrote to the paper and they printed it. I would also argue that the Governor of Hawaii saying that "I have seen the birth certificate" is hearsay. Bottom line: show the damn thing and be done with this nonsense.
oh, and I liked "I Dream of Jeannie" as a kid growing up in the 60s.