Chaz Bono: My Mom Just Needed More Time to Accept Me

In the past, Cher acknowledged she had a hard time accepting her child's decision to undergo a sex change, and now Chaz Bono tells
PopEater he believes his famous mom's reluctance may have been a "generational thing" and that she was not only shocked by his decision but also surprised at how quickly others adapted to it.
"I think she was surprised. I think she didn't expect people to be able to handle it as well as they have," Chaz said. "I really thought that we had come farther than I think my mom did. I think that's probably just a generational thing."
Chaz also talked about his relationship with longtime girlfriend, Jennifer Elia. They've been engaged for a while, but had to put any marriage plans on hold for obvious reasons.
"We've been engaged for about two years now," Chaz said. "So when all this stuff started happening and Jen was in grad school and I had started my transition, we had to table it for a while. So we'll get back into it."
The 42-year-old activist, who is promoting his book,
'Transition,' and documentary 'Becoming Chaz' (on Oprah's OWN), called the very fact that he can now get married "a weird thing for us" because just a few years ago he was not legally male.
"It feels weird for us. So many of our friends are gay and lesbian. We're big supporters of marriage equality and Prop 8 was happening in California, we were really involved," Chaz said. "So that is kind of a weird thing for us, too, that now we can do it. Exactly, it feels a little weird."
And just like all other couples who can marry, Chaz and Jennifer will be able divorce if that's what it come to. Chaz warns that for similar couples, the outcome hasn't always been pretty.
"There have been cases when the divorce happens where it has gotten around child support and stuff like that where there have been some really nasty court cases and people challenging it."
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I wish Chaz all the best!!
I give him tons of credit for having the courage
to be who he is!!
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You're just as much a nut case as he/she is.
Cher, its ok, you don't have to accept this mess. There are a lot more people disgusted than tolerant. Cher, you are a beautiful woman, don't let Chastity bring you down. You are not required to accept this in order to be a good mother.
Chaz will never have or be his best as long as he is that overweight. He looks like a slob and that has nothing to do with his sexuality. Please consider your mother for God sake Chaz!
Chastity Bono is a WOMAN no matter what surgery/hormone therapy she used... cutting off her breasts and taking male hormones does not change the facts... she is just one very sad, sick woman
Ha ha ha. Unbelievable. Watch the interview. The way she wiPed her mouth, she sure acted like a man. Funny. I remember her with her father and mother on the show. She was a very cute girl. Too bad that something happened to her true self that somehow changed her feminine view to masculine view. It is possible that her parents' divorce may have impacted her emotionally that could twist everything in her head. I was told that many homosexuals including lesbians were abused in their childhood years. Well, she would have been a great wife.
Very well said. I too wish Chaz the very best and I hope he too will find peace within and live a happy, healthy and prosperous life. Best wishes.
It's a freak show! Technology, just because we can doesn't mean we should. What's next, a bun in the oven?
I agree with you 100%...good for you chaz!!!
What a freak ..he/she will not have a penis so how can this sicko call its self a man. Ugly, fat sick freak.....so you can have female parts below and be called a man. What is happening to this world?
Me too.
I don't understand someone like this, I don't think many people do. I'm guessing people like her are born with to much of the wrong hormone? No matter what happened its not her fault, it just is. Does that make sense?
NO ONE HAS TO LIKE THIS. IT IS NOT YOUR LIFE TO LIVE. WAY TOO MUCH JUDGEMENT HERE. I SAY DO WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY.
. . . and just WHAT is "he", "she" or "it"??
Great,went from being a fat ugly chick, to being a fat ugly guy.Thank God for california,we have a place to store the nuts.
I agree, toffee, I wish HIM all the best too.
Good for you, CHAZ!!! Best Wishes!!!
You write that you "give him tons of credit for being who he is".
Isn't that missing the point by a country mile?
What about giving HER the credit for being who SHE was ?
She was born female and is not now a "male". Her DNA is female and always will be because.......................she was born this way!
And L......you said "DO WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY." Really?
So if one wants to have sex with vulnerable same sex (maybe of age but it's still taking advantage) or a goat? Five wives? 2 men and 3 women....a group? You're nutz.
You are not a nut case and neither is Chaz. I'm proud of him for having the courage to be exactly what and who he is. I wish him and his girl friend all the luck in the world. When narrow-minded peope learn to grow uo this will be a much better world.
You said courage to be who he is? I say what a bunch of bologne!It is totally against nature. Who he is is a WOMAN! That`s why SHE was born with tits & a vagina. MEN have penises. I believe that is 1st grade anatomy. He/she or should I say IT never will be a man, and it`s an insult to real men to call IT a man. I pray they never get to adopt, or any same sex couples for that matter. What a way to confuse a kid, 2 moms or 2 dads. YUK. I wouldn`t blame Cher if she never talks to IT again.
You know what's really nuts - that a someone named Mike is posting as someone named Mickey and Jennifer (check the first two responses - click on Jennifer or Mickey's profile, you'll see). Littering the board with hate filled ignorance. Living more of a lie than Chaz is... at least Chaz doesn't need a false internet identity... you psycho.