Chaz Bono: My Mom Just Needed More Time to Accept Me

In the past, Cher acknowledged she had a hard time accepting her child's decision to undergo a sex change, and now Chaz Bono tells
PopEater he believes his famous mom's reluctance may have been a "generational thing" and that she was not only shocked by his decision but also surprised at how quickly others adapted to it.
"I think she was surprised. I think she didn't expect people to be able to handle it as well as they have," Chaz said. "I really thought that we had come farther than I think my mom did. I think that's probably just a generational thing."
Chaz also talked about his relationship with longtime girlfriend, Jennifer Elia. They've been engaged for a while, but had to put any marriage plans on hold for obvious reasons.
"We've been engaged for about two years now," Chaz said. "So when all this stuff started happening and Jen was in grad school and I had started my transition, we had to table it for a while. So we'll get back into it."
The 42-year-old activist, who is promoting his book,
'Transition,' and documentary 'Becoming Chaz' (on Oprah's OWN), called the very fact that he can now get married "a weird thing for us" because just a few years ago he was not legally male.
"It feels weird for us. So many of our friends are gay and lesbian. We're big supporters of marriage equality and Prop 8 was happening in California, we were really involved," Chaz said. "So that is kind of a weird thing for us, too, that now we can do it. Exactly, it feels a little weird."
And just like all other couples who can marry, Chaz and Jennifer will be able divorce if that's what it come to. Chaz warns that for similar couples, the outcome hasn't always been pretty.
"There have been cases when the divorce happens where it has gotten around child support and stuff like that where there have been some really nasty court cases and people challenging it."
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THE BODY BEING WRONG WASEN'T THE PROBLEM, GOD NEVER, EVER, MAKES A MISTAKE, THE BRAIN WAS THE PROBLEM, HE, SHE, WANTED TO BE SOMETHING DIFFERENT THEN WHAT HE, SHE, WAS AT BIRTH. SHE WAS GAY FROM THE START AND TO NOT BE CALLED GAY SHE HAD THIS SEX CHANGE. I AM SURE SOME DAY WHEN HE,SHE, STANDS IN FROUNT OF GOD , GOD WILL SAY,"WHAT DID YOU DO"? I MADE YOU A BEAUTIFUL LITTLE GIRL AND LOOK AT YOU NOW,UGLY, OVER WEIGHT,A THING OF DISSCUSS
This is a very sick world we live in. One that would give air time to the sickness that lives in it. As though a mental problem with such confusion and hurt is a positive thing. Air it but put it on a medical program to show how to deal with the issues medically and emotionally. Not celebrate the sickness by accepting that mutilating ones body is the answer. I guarantee you she is still not happy.
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This is a joke
You are uneducated in abnormal psychology among other things.
I AGREE!
He looks a lot like Governor of NJ, Chris Christie....hmmmm.
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Messed up!!
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So much for the GAY ICON Cher. All Hollywood liberals are hypocrites! GO CHAZ!
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prove it
Just plain weird!
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This whole thing confuses me. Does that make his/her fiancee straight or gay??? I totally support gay and lesbians but this so called transistion just doesn't sit well with me. Maybe because I remember this person as an adorable little girl. I just can't accept this.
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I agree. I believe transexuals are mentally ill. As well as homosexuals/biosexuals but its not their fault What make this form of mental illness different than other types? Geez.......some of you guys sound like HITLER!!
I'm sorry, but Chaz Bono is just the weirdest thing I've ever seen.
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I think you are forgetting Lady GaGA and Michael Jackson...talk about weird!!
Angie, baby u're rite. Jim is weird if he thinks Chaz looks better than Michael Jackson did. Or Lady GaGa 4 that matter. Weird and blind. Also Thomas, u should know if XX chromosome, female. Want my kids 2B happy, make own choices. As parent however, would B unhappy with Chaz choice/look. Doesn't spell phobia though.
The DNA says female. Science dictates that. Cher loves her child, and probably does struggle with this. Any parent would.
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R we realy this bored to read or care about this freak? With out this book she/he is nothing. What does it do for work?? Look at the girl it is with. A Bi-girlfriend. If this is the guy thing that turns her on....oh my. More things going on in this world than Chaz. What a freak...I feel very sorry for her.
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I dont understand where Chaz can call herself a man when she still has a vagina,she said she is not going to get a sex change operation to get a penis.Someone just answer ...How can you call yourself a man ,Maybe I am missing something
Thank you
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I think its called shemale. This is no joke. I think shemale is the term. And by the way, you're not missing anything, but someone else is.
No, A Shemale has breasts and a penis.