Pal: 'Heartbroken' Hef Thought Crystal Was the One

Moments after
Hugh Hefner sadly confirmed that his wedding to 25-year-old model Crystal Harris
won't be happening this Saturday -- she had a "change of heart," he said -- former girlfriends began
tweeting their support, including Kendra Wilkinson. "We r comin over w some jack n coke," she promised, though the 'Girl Next Door' was only joking because she was en route to Chicago at the time. (She later
deleted the "jack" tweet.)
Those close to the Playboy icon tell me he is coping, but truly heartbroken by Crystal's decision to leave him.
"He will die of a broken heart," a friend says. "He loves Crystal and wanted so much to finally be happily married to who he thought was the love of his life."
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Hugh Hefner and Crystal Harris attend the Playboy Jazz Festival on Saturday, June 11. According to reports, they had a fight either that day or the next and she moved out. More Playboy Pics >>
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HOLLYWOOD, CA - JUNE 11: Hugh Hefner attends the 2011 Playboy Jazz Festival at the Hollywood Bowl on June 11, 2011 in Hollywood, California. (Photo by Jonathan Leibson/WireImage)
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LOS ANGELES, CA - JUNE 11: Hugh Hefner appears for questions and answers at the 33rd Anniversary of the Playboy Jazz Festival at The Hollywood Bowl on June 11, 2011 in Los Angeles, California. (Photo by Earl Gibson III/Getty Images)
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Over 300 people had been invited to the wedding, which would have been the third for the 85-year-old Hef. Now the strawberry wedding cake and pink gown will never be touched as the back yard wedding plans are scrapped.
"The breakup is a heartbreaker, but better now than after the marriage,"
Hugh tweeted last night. Hef also showed he has a sense of humor about this setback, saying "Since we're not getting married on Saturday, I've scheduled a movie: 'Runaway Bride.' Seems appropriate."
He also corrected a report that claimed he and Crystal had had a "nasty argument" and he even fueled speculation that the breakup was timed to promote his ex's single by retweeting a message from travel blogger Linz Loves: "Omg @CrystalHarris left @hughhefner the day her single came out on iTunes. Coincidence? I think not."
What's clear is that many of Hef's friends and ex-lovers had had their concerns about the young blond who seemingly stole his heart only last year.
"I don't really know her," former Hugh lover Molly Madison told me in February she's clearly concerned about her ex's decision to get married. "I'm just really protective and want to make sure he's making the right choices."
And now that it's clear he didn't, sources tell me Holly and Kendra, who is now happily married with a family, will do whatever they can to support the man who first supported them.
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Don't fret Hef your whole empire was based on Ho's, lose one find another, its plenty of them out there!
Don't worry Hef there's always Kim Kardashian if her engagement/marriage doesn't work out!
Vcrozas u are right! She might have stayed longer but she thinks she's already got it made. lol Sorry Crystal 1 single will not take care of you for long. #karma
He is clearly a stupid old fool. Sad!
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Now Now, Jini, your right about this breakup being "sad". My feeling is that Hef is quite a gentle soul and would do just about anything to help someone out. Yes, it's weird for an 85 year old man to fall for a 25 year old girl, money and power can be a real turn-on for a young girl, he should be a good read of character at his age. But, Hef is human and obviously fell for this "sweety", 4 days before the wedding, he has every right to be broken hearted.
Ya...poor stupid old fool has had millions in his bank account,mansions,private jets,limos and hundreds of the worlds most beuatiful bimbos waiting for furthur instructions in bed for decades.Sure wish I could be a poor stupid old fool like him,FOR JUST A DAY!
Shame he didnt hang on to his first wife when she got fat,old and boring.He could have had the life all you frumpy housewives THINK men want.
Sad? For years he used women for sex. He's getting what he deserves.
Well Said!!
Jini . . . You are obviously an unfeeling, self-serving, JEALOUS fool! ;)
Amen to Him being a dumb old fool! He should put His money and time in thinking about His funeral and how few years He has left instead of trying to sack and "Merry" every 20-something Hot-pants Baby that works for Him in His mansion!
So true....can you imagine believing a beautiful 24 year model would want to marry a shriveled up old man....He once was a player now he is just making a fool out of himself!
I agree. I am glad this woman, who could be his granddaughter, has left now, rather than marrying him for his money. I just can't imagine someone 25 ever being happy with an 85 yr. old.
I mean we question the marriage when the girl is young enough to be the daughter, but granddaughter? WTF!!
They are both better off. And I agree; why doesn't Heff find a woman his own age for a change? He is the most sexist man on the planet! ;-( . . .
Just ask Molly.
Hef might have alzheimers. He certainly is delusional.
She could be his great-granddaughter.
First of all you can't USE the willing. And what happened to the twins that he had lively and loving with the old guy? If I recall he couldn't make his mind up about which one he wanted. Such a delimma. Wait a moment, I am 65 and was close to marrying a 26 year old lady. My family thought I was a crazy old fool. I don't have an empire however, there would have been a prenup. I'm sure the Hef had a great prenup, however, he will not live forever and she could have waited a couple of years. She is just another stupid young blond. I still wonder about the twins...
You are so right Jini. He deserves whatever he gets. He could be her great-great-grandfather for god's sake! It makes me want to vomit!!!
A very rich stupid old fool.
Consider yourself lucky Hef!
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She was the one... The one who was going to take all of his money...
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